Have you ever read a book that has changed your thinking ?

@Melody1 (967)
India
March 12, 2007 2:06pm CST
Good books are peoples best friend.They certainly make an impact if written in a powerful and convincing manner. Do you think reading can change your thought process?We ceratinly gain good knowledge and information. But can books change our thinking?Have you ever felt so?
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@limcyjain (3516)
• India
13 Mar 07
I am a regular reader of books on management and firmly believe that books help us change our thinking, the way we plan, the way we react to business problems, the way we invest all has changed and i am very satisfied with what i have gained from my readings. Rather i summarise these books for future reference.
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@worthy (2413)
• India
15 Mar 07
Thats very inspiring limcyjain.You not only have benfitted in thinking but are also putting it into productive use.
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@worthy (2413)
• India
15 Mar 07
As for me,I too feel that good books help us in becoming a better person.
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
27 Mar 07
A very practical and positive change in the thought process indeed.:-)
@nancyrowina (3850)
12 Mar 07
Books I've read have changed the way I felt about certain people and subjects certainly. They let you look at things from a different point of view and give you a new understanding of a situation you may not have had before. That's the beauty of books they make you think more than films and television.
@Melody1 (967)
• India
12 Mar 07
Absolutely.I have felt books impact more than movies.I feel myself transported to an entirely new world while reading a good book.
@winjzz (157)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 07
Agree. I've read books by Robert Greene and several local (malaysian) writers and had serious feeling of discomfort and anxiety, forcing me to re-evaluate my situation and work smart to improve myself.
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
27 Mar 07
Thats the power and effect of a good book.Hope your life changes for better.Good Luck.:-)
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
9 Apr 07
yes, i read "MEN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS".before reading this book i was unable to understand the cold wars among couples and how could they be intelligently be handled without harming the relation or the feelings of both people involved. it describes the thought processes of men and women.it refers to the expectations and reactions of both as a couple as well as an individual.this book really helped me to look at my relation with my husband in entirely new way.i think it would be of use to everybody who wants to have a better understanding of his or her soulmate.
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
9 Apr 07
Thank you sonalika for telling us about such a good book.Do you remember the authors name?
@rhinoboy (2129)
27 Mar 07
I believe that people are the sum of their experiences multiplied by their thoughts. Any decent book has the ability to educate and to inspire individual thoughts, therefore enables the reader to grow as a person. A good author can give such a true sense of their perspective, that reading their work is as beneficial as a deep and personal conversation with a friend or loved one.
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
27 Mar 07
Very well said rhinoboy.Thats the reason they say that good books are our bestest friends.:-D
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I read a book called Gina. It was about a girl whose mother went to an abortion clinic and had her aborted (she thought) The abortion did not take and the little girl was born. She had problems but grew to be adult. This book was written about her and by her. It was wonderful. I did not belive in abortions before reading the book but after reading the book, I hated even the name abortion. I urge eveyone to read this book.
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• United States
27 Mar 07
This was such a good book and it went into detail of what happed to the young mother when she went to have her abortion. It is so sad and I cannot see who this could not affect the young lady doing it. Thanks for Best response
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
12 Mar 07
The mere description has given me goosebumps.So,I can imagine what an immense impression it can leave on the reader. In college we were told by our respected nuns about the ways an abortion is doneand at that very point I decided ,I would never opt for it no matter what.
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@mummymo (23706)
12 Mar 07
The books that I have read are the ones A child Called It , The Lost Boy and Aman Named Dave. These 3 books are by a man called Dave Pelzer and they truly touched me - it is the story of his childhood and journey into adulthood, and you would not believe how badly abused he was. I think this book should be compulsory reading in high school because despite his horrendous start in life he has made a successful life for himself - honestly it is a Must Read but be sure to have a box of tissues or two! x
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@rhinoboy (2129)
27 Mar 07
I read a boy called it. It truly was inspiring. It makes a complete mockery of the kids that whinge and complain about their lives and makes me cherish my childhood, which I had previously thought hadn't been very good.
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
27 Mar 07
True.I think we all need to change our mindset from being unhappy for what we don't have ,to a happy and grateful person thankful for what we have.:-)
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
12 Mar 07
As long as books give some knowledge then yes they can have an impact on peoples lives. Sci fi etc can spur imagination. Changing your thought processes is up to you. You are the master of your domain. Books are mere tools. They can open some doors. They are only as good as the writer who wrote them and the reader the uses the information.
@Melody1 (967)
• India
12 Mar 07
Thanks for sharing your good thoughts :-)
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I agree that a good book can become a good friend. They are ones I often revisit and enjoy. I have had some that have altered the way I view the world. It might just be a small bit in it that the author never really meant for it to but for the reader it can change their whole outlook on things. I always find books like that enjoyable. The ones that make you think without you realizing it if that makes sense. It enters into your mind and you realize some time later that it has effected you and it keeps doing it as you look at the world around you. Those to me are great books.
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I have read this one book one time that was a tragic love story. It touched me in such a way that it actually left me in tears and feeling mopey. I was mopey and down for days for the way the story ended. I do believe books can effect your mood and the way you think.
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@Melody1 (967)
• India
12 Mar 07
I believe so too,but its positive effect is what I like.
@crickethear (1417)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Yes, I believe it can. I read Dr. Phil's Ultimate Weightloss Challenge. It was amazing the thought processes, and how previous things affected me. It is a great book, even if you aren't wanting to lose weight.
@Melody1 (967)
• India
12 Mar 07
Thats it.I greatly admire writers who write in an extremely inpiring and convincing manner.
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Good books broaden your perspective, it provides you with knowledge, understanding, wisdom and conviction. I also believe that books can change our way of thinking in a manner that it allows us to know information that we's never though before. You can learn in a book everything that you want to know in life. In short, books are THAT powerful. :)
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