Too many divorce nowadays why? it wasn't like that before.

@12051976 (231)
Ghana
March 12, 2007 3:50pm CST
I don't understand why there are lot of divorce nowadays. what is the happening? Is it a generational problem or lack of psychologically,emotional,financial preparation before marriage? it scarce me to get involve because i don't want to be a victim. Can some body tell me his/her view on this crucial issue. help meee!
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@Naomi17 (624)
13 Mar 07
Marriage is something to take seriously unfortunately nowadays its so easy to call it a day. Marriages don't just fall apart they have to be worked at and you need to respect each other, i took my vows very seriously in front of God to love him and share my life. Everyone has ups and downs we argued more in our first year i think because neither of us wanted to be wrong lol. Things got better we both learnt to live with each other, we always loved each other and the making up was fantastic! Money isn't the issue for me we had very little money we loved each other and that was enough, i think its the adjustment from only having to think of yourself to putting another person first in your life not being able to have your own way compromising letting them have there own way and visa versa
@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
13 Mar 07
Good! so what advise do you have for people who take delight in divorce here and there?
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Divorce has lost its stigma in our modern society. It is just too easy to get divorced. Now people don't need any real reason to end a marriage beyond "I'm just not happy." We've forgotten that marriage is a sacred institution. Too often the initial thrill of romance wears off and the couple think the love is gone forever, instead of sticking it out and working on getting the romance back into their marriage.
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@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
13 Mar 07
thanks for your story friend! it's very sad indeed. And most of the street boys we find nowadays comes from broken home. it is a curse to have a broken isn't it?I think something must be done It's sad dear!.
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
Im actually against divorce and im happy because theres no divorce here in my country. sad to say but divorce has already exist in a lot of countries particularly in the developed ones. im also concerned about couples breaking up because of incompatibility. marriage is then sacred and should be given importance. In order for this not to happen, it is important for a couple to be emotionally, psychologically, financially and even spiritually ready. There maybe a lot of problems in any relationship but if these aspects are valued, no divorce will happen.
@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
19 Mar 07
great! am happy to hear that there is no divorce in your country. How does the leadership make this possible? Am very interested i want to know. Be my friend. Cheers!
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I think because they get married to young and they grow apart and argue too much.
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
17 Mar 07
When the partners are not very serious about there realtionships,it tends to get broken.Alos, the stigma attached to divaorse has gone.When the initial flow & energy of the marriage goes ,people just starts to think that its over.Also, you have to make the marriage go.There is np place for Ego,jealousy,Over-poseessiveness in marriage.Try to respect your partner & don't take for granted .One has to have a limit to the expectations & learn to be less selfish & share .
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@merlblue (275)
• United Arab Emirates
22 Mar 07
its happening people is too rush to get involved in a relationship, they think that this is the right time to get into so when they finally realized its not yet the time for the right time for them so they wanted to get out of it.. they cant wait for gods perfect timing.
• United States
22 Mar 07
I believe that it is to easy to get a divorce and people just walk away from the marriage. It is easier to walk than to talk and work it out. BUT, I also believe that our society has changed very much. There is much more stress in a marriage now then years ago. Woman use to stay home and raise their families, Children came home to a parent after school and talked about their day, Mom's volunteered at school, they cleaned the house during the day, ran errands, paid bills, helped the children with their school work, waited on their husbands when they got home and were the backbone of the family. Now they work outside the home and are tired after working all day. It's hard to do the school work, prepare the night meal, do the cleaning ect. The Husbands have to pitch in to help,too. It's a much more busier life now then in the past and marriages take much more work. And who has the time? By the way, I am a female.
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• India
17 Mar 07
to many choices out there now my man for someone to work on something