Friendship or Love

That's ended a very difficult situation bnerlyn, and yeah love of this kind often lead to broken friendship. But please remember that in thing called life, you need to know your priorities and weigh things properly. It's either you want to see yourself happy or your best friend happy. AM not saying that you did a wrong move...but if I were in your case, I should say I'd try to tell the guy and my best friend how I really feel. after all, I don't wanna end up with all the what ifs on my head. I believe it,s worth telling them how you really feel about things happening between you guys...and then you take it from there...if the guy really is truly in love with you, then he would be willing to fill in that emptiness you have inside, and if your best friend really considers you as a true friend and would understand the things you have been going through I guess she would be happy to see you happy with that guy..though I know it's pretty hard to accept at first coz she also likes him..but the thing is, why do you need to sacrifice if there's still a way to make a happy ending? try to talk things out with your best friend and your man. I would be happy to see you happily together with your man while still keeping the friendship you have nurtured with your best friend for years. Godbless!

It depends on the situation. But if i'm gonna choose i will choose to whom i'm gonna be happy. It's not right to pretend. If you love him then say it but still friendship would remain if he say's you are just a friend to him. But if you guys have the same feeling, then why don't you tried to be lovers? Who knows it will works.