Tired of Falling in love...

You can get tired of falling in love with each of your courters. There might be something physically very attractive in you that guys like you/fall in love with you/ infatuated at you, and they could see that you are the "courtable" type. Mind you, guys are always attracted to women's physical beauty.If they 'Hi" you and you respond, they would consider you as an 'available' woman.I would suggest: you choose the best one you think from the lot and stick to him (one) only, forget the others.

Take it from me who's been there and done that. I would say, SPEND SOME TIME TO BE ALONE. Enjoy your singlehood, know what you want, know yourself and divert your focus ,your passion and your energy to other productive things such as career, finances, friends, or school. There's so much in life that you can still explore before getting into a real relationship. Don't enter a relationship just because you feel lonely. Don't go with a guy just because you felt that spark. Sparks fade away. Most of them are just fleeting emotions that don't last. Don't get gah-gah over a guy who knows how to deliver his lines without you knowing that you're the nth person whom he said those words about. Don't go for the guy just because you jibe well. Don't go for the guy who's just sexy, hot, attractive or handsome. Go for something that you know would be good for you and not something that you'll always run after because he's mysterious or whatsoever. Go for the real thing. For the meantime, enjoy every moment you have when you can take control of your sanity and of yourself. In His perfect time, you'll find the right person who'll even introduce you to his mommah!

how many times have you been in love? are you mistaking love for something else? Lust maybe? Ive only been in love 2 times and Im 29 years old. My first love I met when I was 16 and after 6 years we sperated...and several years later I met the love I have now and Ive been with him for 7 years. Im not sure if you are falling in and out of love so often it's really love. I would say you need to be ok with NOT being with anyone at all. Realize its ok to be alone & single...and DONT look for love...let it find you. And also go slow...dont expect anything right away and dont offer your love right away. good luck.

What should I say? Maybe you should not hurry. Love will come in its own time. Dont get tired... but next time just be more careful... There is no perfect love...bUt you have to both work hard for the imperfections... I can say that you are pretty since yopu have lots of suitors... well I guess just enjoy your life while single then wait for the right man to come. And you cannot force yourself nor stop yourself from falling inlove... but you should give it enough time I guess...

It is really a mystery why we fall in love. it comes and it goes. sometimes it will come to us in full bloom then suddenly moves on. sometimes we forget that love is a gift that is freely given and a gift that just as freely moves away. when you fall out of love or the person you love moves away, you try hard to reclaim the love instead of accepting the gift for what it was. You need to know this about love, and to accept it. You need to treat it with kindness. If you fall in love with someone, and he/she doesnt love you back, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didnt choose to rest in the other person's heart. If someone falls in love with you but you do not love that person, feel honored that someone loves you but gently refuse the love you cannot return. do not take advantage. do not cause pain. how you deal with love is how you deal with yourself. All of us feel the same joys and pains. if you fall in love with someone and he/she falls in love with you and then it didnt work out in the end, do not try to reclaim it or to put blame on either party. Let it go. there's always a reason why it happened, you will know in time. For now just learn from your mistakes and eventually you will find the right one and you'll live happily ever after. :D