Who is more important in Life???????????????
@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
India
March 13, 2007 12:10am CST
People give importance only to some particular persons in their life time. They are ready to do any thing for them. Some give to Parents, Some to Wife, Husband,etc.... What are the factors we have to consider to give such importance or preference? Is it necessary to have such preferences?
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@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
• India
13 Mar 07
Generally for all parents especially mothers, kids are their world. Really great thing. But one thing all mothers have to keep in their mind is.....from the starting itself they should ensure that they imbibe good qualities in children for their best future. Am i right?
@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
13 Mar 07
I think that the most important people in any person's life are his/her parents, grandparents, siblings and their best friends.
In my opinion, parents should be at the top of this list because without we are nothing and we are in this world because of them. They should be are pride and joy and we should try our best to keep them happy and proud of ourselves.
Grandparents should be next in the list because they are a great blessing and a treasure to have in our lives. They are a source of knowledge and experience.
Siblings, because after our grandparents and parents leave this world. They will be the only ones who will ask how we are doing. They will genuinely care for us and it should be mutual.
Best friends because they are rare treasures which should be cherished. They can share everything with them and can count on them to be there for us whenever we want them.
So all in all, in my opinion these people should and have to hold an important part in our lives.
@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
• India
13 Mar 07
Then what about the relatives, wife? In the presence of wife, to whom we have to prefer. Because wife influences husband a lot na!
@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
• India
13 Mar 07
Obviously everyone wants to be happy in life. But one important thing we have to remember is....... that happiness has to last long. Also at the same time we should follow the legal path to keep ourselves happy. Accordingly we have to influence others and behave with them. For this we have treat everyone same without giving any importance to only few persons. What do u think?
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
13 Mar 07
This varies from time to time depending on the situation. When I need money in a big way, my big brother becomes important. When I need a job, I need the help of my college professor. When I want to manage my social functions, my wife becomes important. Likewise, no one person is indispensable.
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@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
• India
13 Mar 07
So do u mean to those who helps us only had to be given prefernce? If so, i have to think to agree with u. But really according to the situation only we can. Some people may not be able to help us but have lot of respect towards us. So, how to rate them?
@Island_Geko (3759)
• Canada
13 Mar 07
In some cases yes. If you don't tell your mother or mother-in-law that your hun is now the important person in your life they may still feel they are a major part and can still have some control over your life, which in some cases is very bad thing. For some married couples who have mothers or mother-in-law who are nossey and tend to be controling they need to be but in their place to know they are only welcome as guests not controlleres.
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@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
• India
13 Mar 07
So, is it necessary to inform our preferences or importance to them? I think we can only express by the way we behave with them..... What do u feel?
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
13 Mar 07
I value my family more than anyone else. They are the ones that I have tried to put my attention. They are the people that Icare about. I know that times get worst I can lean on to my family. They are the people who will be always by my side and support me all the way.
Then will follow after my family are my firends and the people that i care about. There are really firneds who I treat more than my friends and have close relationships with.
@dumbu_veerabadra (48)
• India
13 Mar 07
Yes. We have to give value to our family. Whatever happens, they are the ones who takes care of us. Even though their exists some problems, misunderstandings inbetween, they are just transient and we should not hang to those things and make our life miserable.