how to know the real score???

You get over it when you move on.. that's it. if you had feelings for someone i guess you will always have it unless you have discovered that you were misguided and what you loved was fake, at this case there will be no problem to move on but if you sense that you lost something good you will not get over it completely until you find someone new who can replace the feelings.

it sounds that you're heartbroken my friend...anyway...only you can answer that question. You are the one who can say that you already get over with your past relationship...If you see him and your heart still beat faster i think you haven't yet..and you always telling his name, thinking of him, your memories, missing him..You can say that you already move on if your comfortable seeing him even when he has a girl with him...Your not hurt if you heard something about him..something like that...Eventhough how hard you get over with that person, a little or tiny place in your heart still belongs to him for he became part of your life,,Just think past is only a memory and the future is a dream..

why my friend? and who's that guy, if you don't mind. you don't need to know the score. go to that guy and tell him right under his own nose that you don't love him anymore and i f you could do that, i'll give you ice cream. promise!