how does it feel being your boyfriend's or girlfriend's number two???

Philippines
March 13, 2007 6:10am CST
love is in the air.. love is blind.. when you are inlove you conquers all...we people, different people, can feel or experience to be in love in different ways.as a result it is something that is hard to define..but sometimes in love, we failed.. like me, when i was in college, im so much inlove with this guy..so inlove.... but one day, during our date, someone missed called him.. i was so shocked.. the caller was her girlfriend... i dont know what im going to do that time..im so much inlove at the same time im so much hurt.. i cried all night long... i cannot explain what i felt..all i want is to be alone. being number two is so painful especially, when you are in love... you?? yeah you?? have you experience being number two??
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wishangel
@wishangel (225)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 07
i no have experience of beoing number two, but i have 2 girlfriends and they dont know each other, because i think i will let they happy so i wont mind to take they two but as we happy why need to expose, so no need fear anything just follow you feeling
sweetiebhabe
@sweetiebhabe (19)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
just be careful handling your TWO relationships.. one day they might caught you...
ratburn
@ratburn (939)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
i've never experienced what happened to you. i can understand how that hurts though. you trust the one you love. you love then with all your heart and then you learn that they have been lying to you the whole time. sucks big time. time to move on. there are so much better men out there. those who will never let you be number two. those who will treat you not only as number one but THE ONLY ONE. good luck! hope you find the one for you.
sweetiebhabe
@sweetiebhabe (19)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
i already found him.. hes so perfect to me.. :-) ive learned alot on my past so, i really chose the right one..
pramodthakur
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
14 Mar 07
If I am happen to be number two then it will be better for me to leave at once. I want to be at top always. I do not like to be number two. If someone is doing so then it is just flirting nothing more. If we do friendship, we should involve fully. No one in between us. But there are many who makes many friends and changes frequently like a cloth. This is not true friendship, just past time. So my suggestion is to friends here that before being involved in love with someone check twice, if required thrice.
ethanmama
@ethanmama (1745)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
I would never willingly let myself be somebody's number two. It's unfair to both me and the number one.
mrimperfect
@mrimperfect (81)
• Singapore
13 Mar 07
It is painful indeed. I have experienced the pain myself. My own experiences has taught me one thing - When it comes to love, it's either all or nothing at all. If I am willing to make the other party my everything, I expect the other party to do the same. If not, I will rather be nothing.
gersonjohn
@gersonjohn (19)
• Philippines
14 Mar 07
no, didn't experience that situation, but if i experienced that i will be very angry if my girlfriend do that to me, because you do everything just for her to be happy with you, then you are not the only boyfriend of your girlfriend you are only the number two, it so painful if you experienced that.i hope i will not experience that situation
lucas528
@lucas528 (323)
• Northern Mariana Islands
13 Mar 07
it should be painful when you dont know it. i may not feel what you felt that time but i am sure that you'll get through it, my friend.
vikasintl
@vikasintl (266)
• India
13 Mar 07
I haven't experienced this. You said you cried but when u cry the pain should go but if something is left ...its insult feeling. It has hurt your ego.