How to deal with family members?
By hersheygucci
@hersheygucci (63)
Philippines
March 13, 2007 9:07am CST
I am the eldest among the children of Nine and at times having difficulty managing other siblings who have their own lives and those who are still minors, Please tell me some of the things that had helped you with this.Thanks
1 response
@nilzerous1 (2434)
• India
13 Mar 07
Congratulations for being a part of a Mega family. And now the tips:
1. Simply enjoy your life.
2. Try to engage the minors in creative activity like engage them in different craftsmanship, this will reduce your trouble.
3. Whenever there is a quarrel, try to listen (or, not listen) to everybody quietly, do not take anybodies side, atleast pretend to be neutral. Just carry on your routine work. Ultimately things will cool down. If it does not then spend fifteen minutes to anaylyse the route problem and find a quick solution. The solution should be declared when everybody agrees to listen to you. Otherwise do not be the first person to offer a solution.
Enjoy!
@hersheygucci (63)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
thanks for the welcome being in the mega family, it's really fun, yea you're right i gotto do this. Thanks for the response.
@nilzerous1 (2434)
• India
14 Mar 07
Thanks. One thing I can say you that these are the verified formula that have worked with many big families.