thoughts on guy issue

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Okay, I would like your insight on a guy i was with. I'm dating someone new now but i can't figure out exactly what happened with the other guy- so some ideas on it would be great. Okay, here it goes--- I was with a friend when we stopped at a guy's house that she was thinking about dating. This guy's friend was there with him with him and me and the friend seemed to hit it off that night. A few days later, after getting my # from my friend, he began texting and calling me and we started hanging out. We went out and did stuff together and with his friends, parents' place, and i'd met a few other relatives. Everything seemed to be fine, although we never were "official" and were together about 3 weeks. One night I was at his house and everything seemed fine but then after I didn't hear from him for a couple days. I tried calling and he didn't answer -but he works a lot so then I just tried sending him some texts and he didn't reply. I finally sent him a text asking if he was pissed at me and he did reply with a "no" and we sent a few meaningless texts back and forth but none that helped me figure anything out(ex: how r u, whats up?, etc) And then didn't talk again. I didn't kno what to think and stopped at his work when he was closing one night. We talked but not about us- for some reason I couldn't bring it up and he couldnt seem to either. My friend heard that he n his ex gf might be getting back together but wasnt sure. Then another few days go by and my cell got swamped with txts from him( prolly 30 or more all from him) All just asking how im doing, what i've been up to, etc. And finally one that was asking if I was gona be in his town that night(we live bout 15-20 minutes away from eachother) I think the only response i sent was that i wasn't going to be in his town. The next morning I totalled my car and as I was waiting for police to arrive he txted me again and I was such a wreck at that point I told him all about the accident and we talked back and forth for awhile. Anyways I really havent talked to him since. Its been a few weeks now and he did get bak w/ his ex-gf and im w/ a new guy. His brother told me it happened cuz his ex is considered pretty easy and it was bc i hadn't slept with him yet... Sorry I just really needed to get this off my chest-- but what do you guys think- was I a way to get bak w/ his ex?, or bc i didnt sleep w/ him like his brother said, or what?