Who will apologize first?

Never Go to bed angry...I always make sure that we make up before bed time. We will usually argue for a while but after some time it just gets silly and we will discuss it and sometimes we can agree to disagree, But Most of the time someone is in the wrong and when we talk about how it affects the other one we will realise who is wrong. And then apologise...It depends who caused the argument. That is who apologises. You should never think it's too hard to say I'm Sorry, That will put a strain on your relationship.

I think that people who really love each other will know that the one in the wrong is sorry. We never make a big deal out of an apology at hour house. We do expect that the other person might say something like,"I guess you were right." The words spoken aren't important to me. Even little kids say, "Sorry." and they don't mean it at all. A person's behavior following an argument are what is important. Sometimes the person who was right in the argument won't let the subject drop and keeps rubbing it in for weeks afterwards that the other person was wrong. When this happens, the person who was originally in the right becomes just as wrong as the other party. We often come to a point where it looks as though we aren't getting anywhere in a disagreement so one of us just says, "Well, it isn't worth arguing about. Why don't we forget it?" Then no one has to say they are sorry. No one loses. Everyone is happy. If the argument is about something where a decision has to be reached, it is much easier to just say, "You decide." and let it go at that. After all, most marriages are full of compromises. What difference will it really make if you get a blue car or a red car. Love is letting go of stuff like that and caring enough about your partner to let them be the winner.

I think that I am easier to say sorry. I hate arguements or being mad at someone for a long time after the disagreement is over. I mean I will debate my feelings or thoughts on a matter and after I get my side out I am pretty much ok. I dont usually hold grudges and would prefer to apologize if need be in order for a dispute to be settled.

I think whoever started it should apologize. But sometimes you should just swallow your pride and apologize, because eventually you both will, so why carry out a long argument for no reason.