Kids

United States
October 16, 2006 9:30pm CST
My child is 4 years old, in preschool, soccer and dance. She has not had a nap since before she was 2, she has never been the type of child to just crash on floor after playing, she just can't seem to relax and turn off her little brain. Talks non stop, no matter how tired will force herself to stay awake. She is not withdrawn and is very social. I would appreciate any opinions on what I could do to calm her or speak to her doctor about.
12 responses
• United States
18 Oct 06
My son is the same way, he is four and he doesn't nap much at all, takes a lot to get him to sleep. Even at night we have a battle to get him to bed. I think some children are just like that, but, if you are worried, you should talk to your doctor about different forms of ADHD.
@kiwidipa (2852)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Because no one is truly around your daughter as much as you I guess we may not be able to grasp exactly how active she is compared to how you feel. On my perspective, my son is still like that and he is 7. He is excited, and many things to be excited about that we as we get older take for granted. There's nothing wrong with not taking a nap at all. Unless you are trying to get some down time during that hour or 2 that she would be sleeping. To get my son to take a nap a few years ago, I bought this little radio with soothing sounds of waterfalls, and wind, and that, I to however had to take a nap with him sometimes just to get him to go to sleep. Then their were days, where he didnt at all and just laid there talking away which now makes me chuckle as I type this to how funny that is. Good luck figuring out, you will find something, soothing music, sounds, what have you, don't believe because she is like this and doesn't take a nap that she has a problem, she is learning many new things, and it's part of having them grow up. Someday, and I say someday, you might wind up saying, what's wrong, why aren't you talking, when you were little you used to run around and be a social butterfly, what happened. Good Luck
• United States
18 Oct 06
I'm there with you. My talks to herself for like 2 hours, come up and down the stairs. It's a fight ever night. Thanks for the reply:)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Thank you for the response. I've even looked in to this like feng shui. Thing like her bedroom being about the kitchen where the stove is, the fire in the house.... I don't really get in to that stuff but I am tring everything. :)
@kesav010 (1684)
• India
17 Oct 06
i think u must consult a doctor...
• United States
17 Oct 06
I actually have and they seem to think it is common child like behavior.. I think not, my other daughter does not behave that way.. Thank for the reply
• United States
18 Oct 06
Please don't expect her to be just like her sister. All children are unique and should be cherished for how they are.
• United States
18 Oct 06
Yes I do know that they are all unique. However I do believe she has some sort of problem. Because it is just not normal for a child to not sleep. Doctors are just understanding the extent of it. Thanks for your response.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
18 Oct 06
I have dealt with children like this before. My suggestion is to see a natiopath or a wholistic doctor. In all the cases I've seen, the cause is very often the diet. Good luck. The child will thank you for this.
@HerShe (2383)
• Canada
18 Oct 06
Well there you go, you're set.
• United States
18 Oct 06
Thanks I will look into that. It's probably something my mother would know about, she is into alternative healing.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
19 Oct 06
There are children with extra energy. I have heard doctors explaining such situations. I think you should be careful and consult a doctor before taking any steps.
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 06
Yes, I do believed was the energy that cause them to behalf as such.
• United States
19 Oct 06
I just wish I had the same energy so I could keep up with her. Thanks for the reply:)
• United States
18 Oct 06
I wish I could give better advice, I just use that night time bath for my daughter and the night time lotion for her. It has helped alot because I was getting no sleep and had bags under my eyes. When I took her to the doctor they really weren't of any help, I have a new doctor for her so hopefully he is a great doctor. I pray you find you help and that she starts to relax and take naps so that you can also get some rest. God bless
• United States
19 Oct 06
Yea that is true. Your welcome
• United States
18 Oct 06
Most of these Docs probably don't even have kids, and if they do, there wives take care of them, so they don't understand. I personally have found better luck with the new female Doc, she has children and seems to understand more. We'll see how it goes.. Thanks for your reply:)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Praise the Lord at all times His praise shall continuely be in my mouth. You are truly blessed. God Bless
• United States
19 Oct 06
Thank You:)
• United States
19 Oct 06
To me this means this child will be very productive in life. Just keep her focused on the right things to do in life and follow Gods leading. God Bless
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
19 Oct 06
Try to make do on anything that will let her fullyuse er energy like bring to some nice parks for her to run here and there till she can't run and see will that help? I do have ason in that age and he did just the same and I can make iteasily sleep by letting him been actives till he really feel tired!
• United States
19 Oct 06
speaking of running right now as I write this she running circles around the house, as her sister lays on the floor. Thanks for the reply:)
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
19 Oct 06
She seems to be a bit over stimulated..that's a lotof activity for a child. Where is her wind down time? I have two children and they are total opposites..that is very common. One can be a quiter child the other can be loud and always going... If you get really concerned take her to a child psychologist.
• United States
19 Oct 06
I really don't think it's too much activity school is 3 days a week for 2 1/2 hours, dance 1/2 hr per week and soccer 1 hour per week. She just began all doing this stuff, before she was home with me all day long and besides playing she really had not extra activites. Her behavior then was the same as now. Thanks for the reply:)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Wow, I don't know how you do it. You're a strong person! I think children will keep going and going until they have no strength left, and even then they keep trying. It's starts when they are just infants.. Oh how they fight the sleep. I suggest maybe a relaxing bath, let them play it out. Then reading a book or two. Maybe having them lay in the bed and watch a movie? I sure hope something helps. Good luck.
• United States
19 Oct 06
Yes this is my daughter, going going goig, like the energizer bunny. we have tried the movie in bed thing, and believe it or not, she forces herself to stay awake to watch it and then will restart it and watch it again. Thanks for your replu:)
• United States
18 Oct 06
My son had a hard time getting to sleep to, but I am using lavendar as a way to calm him down. I sometimes give him a massage with lavendar oil and grapeseed oil. I also sprayed some lavendar with water on his bed and put a drop in his pillow under the pillow case. Rose Oil is a very good essential oil that helps calm down too, but is more expensive. I know this lady who makes a massage oil with Rose and lavendar oil, her website is: www.lotusbody.com Good luck! She may also be overly stimulated and just can't relax because she is always busy.
• United States
18 Oct 06
Thanks I will try those things. Actually she just became busy in Sept. Before that she had nothing to do, which we thought contributed to lack of sleep, but she is still behaving the same, we thought giving her more activities she would just crash at night....No luck with that. Thanks for the suggestions, I will try them:)
• Hyderabad, India
18 Oct 06
u have to contact u family doctor
• United States
19 Oct 06
Thanks for the reply:)
• United States
18 Oct 06
How much sleep does she get at night? If she gets 9-10 hours of sleep, I wouldn't worry. You must have an active child if you have already gotten her into both dance and soccer. Be thankful if that is the case and encourage her to be physically active. Who knows? You might have an Olympic star in the future.
• United States
18 Oct 06
she probably 8 to 9 hours at night. And she loves both soccer and dance, there both only 1x per week so it's not too much. Thank for your reply:)