when im inlove with my bestfriend!!!!

hi trix_marie! i have a boyfriend right now, we're already in 2 years and 1 month of our relationship. we were bestfriends for 6 years. and believe me, it was hard to fall inlove with your bestfriend. but once you become couples, i'm sure you're going to be inseperable. =) let's weigh things out. 1. what if you broke up with your boyfriend?... - i'm pretty sure you will somehow feel the pain. after this, ofcourse you will tell your bestfriend that you're starting to fall inlove with him. what if he says no, you're just a friend to him. ouch, right? you have no boyfriend and bestfriend at the same time. that's sad. - but what if you tell your bestfriend about your feelings, and somehow you become a couple? o god, that was what happened to me. until now we are very happy. and i tell you, he is the best part of my everyday. you have a boyfriend and bestfriend at the same time, in one man. ** it's up to you whatever you choose, but i suggest that you weigh things out first before you say anything. love has its own way of telling you that it's already time. =)

that's a very complicated situation. but can you be sure that you've fallen in love with your bestfriend? you said that he is a "new friend." how long have you known him? how much do you know him? perhaps you are just feeling a bit of infatuation? yes, i know that long distance relationships are hard, but i believe that the farther lovers are apart, the more they will love each other. hope this helped. good luck.

I've been in that situation before...faling in love with my bestfriend. It's kinda hard in your part coz you already have a boyfriend, unlike me I don't have a boyfriend that time. he didn't know what I feel for him until one day he noticed it. Though he confronted me but still our friendship continues...until he got married. It really hurts a lot and he noticed it but I have to accept it coz as he said we can't do anything coz he already had a gf that time...and it's not fair for his gf. Same as in your situation...I think it's not fair for your bf if you continue that. Much better if you just continue your friendship. Since you love you bf so much! In fact me and my bestfriend remain friends until now...it's been 9 years since he got married to her gf. But he considered me as his special friend and I became his son's godmother...though me and her wife are not that comfortable together but we're ok now.

yup, tell them easier that way I think