How would you say to your husband/wife that you fall out of love with him/her?

I would first ask myself if things can still be worked out or not. If not, I would ask my husband if he's still happy. Who knows, the feeling may be mutual. Then I would ask him if he has any suggestions on what we could do to rekindle the fire, so to speak. I won't easily give up on the relationship. I would try and try and try to make it work until such time when I won't see the point of hanging on anymore. Or until we both give up.

Well, i hadnt experience that before (with a husband) but i had with bf where i have to choose between the two. I choosed the newer one and it was so hard we cried. I told my old bf i still love him but i love my new bf more and i have to make a choice. You see, this wasnt a ordinary gf-bf relationship, I have also a child with my old bf, but i have to be fair to both of them. And i dont want my old bf to keep his hopes up so i had to cut it off. The best thing was that he accepted it with his whole heart and told me that if ever we (me and my new bf) broke-up, i can go back to him. But until now, I still love my new bf but still care for my old bf. Anyways, he was my first love so that can explain hy i still care for him.

i think you should stop and try to remember why you fell in love with the person in the first place, figure out what has changed since then, and try to get a little bit of the old flame back. 9 out of 10 relationships are salvageable if both people are willing to do the work. Maybe you should express your concerns with your partner, dont exactly tell them that you dont love them anymore, but maybe hint that you both need to work harder to remember why you are together. THe other thing is that you should not stay together for the sake of the kids, living in a home where their parents are unhappy is more harmful than if they have to go through a divorce