just a thought...
By joodzki6
@joodzki6 (596)
Philippines
March 14, 2007 3:39am CST
sometimes people are tend to do things without thinking of the consequences of their doings. sometimes, whatever makes them happy is enough reason, doesn't care about what other might feel or say. some are turning away from the thought that they are hurting somebody's feelings just to make themselves happy and comfortable. but do you think it will make them comfortable enough knowing that someone is hurt because of what you've done? "whatever makes you happy can't be wrong." ...do you agree?
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@suryapal (36)
• India
14 Mar 07
ya one have to thing about others feeling also .
but it cant possible in todays world but you an atleast thing that for your little profit or comfort you cant be make someone hurts very deeply .......... its another thing for your much more profit
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
14 Apr 07
Some people are very impulsive and rarely thing before they act.
I am not one of them, but lived with a few all my life.
The two types I have witnessed more are the impulsive person that acts without thinking and when finally realizes the problem or issue that he/she created, feels really bad about it but sometimes doesn't even know how to reverse it,
and the one that lacks empathy. That has trouble understanding what others feel and why. That can't really "walk in other people's shoes",
The first ones are aware of what they created after they finally face it and realize it, and often feel sorry for creating hurt in someone else. They acted on what they wanted or gave them pleasure without even considering anything or any consequences, but when they finally think about it or are made to think about it they try to make things better.
The second ones are a bit more of a problem because they don't even realize that they are hurting others, or rather they don't understand or feel other people's pain. The can only concentrate on what they feel and what they want, and when confronted with the fact that they might have hurt someone else they can't see it. THey can't even understand why the other person might be hurt or how this person hurts.
Asking " how do you think this person feels ? " brings a blank stare.
Then there's the mix of both and I find this kind of people the most dangerous ones. First they act according to what they want what makes them feel good without thinking about the fact that they might hurt others, and then, to top it off, they can't identify with the other person's pain. They can't even imagine it!
This affects me a lot because I can easily feel what other people feel, feel their pain, understand their confusion, "walk on their shoes", so I have a bit of trouble dealing with this kind of people.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 07
No I don't agree
If I know I have made someone unhappy I can not be happy. It always depends what we are talking about
I would never hurt my Friends and if I did I would be very unhappy and do everything in my power to rectify it and make my Friends happy again
I can only be happy if my Friends are happy, I can not be Happy on their unhappiness
