i hate you

Let me tell you something that will make you happy. Have you ever noticed that when we try to forget someone, we find that we are remembering that person even more in our efforts to forget him. Exactly the same applies to these three words "I HATE YOU", when you say this to someone, and hurt him, does that make you forget that guy, infact you are keeping on thinking about the whole event again and again. Our consiou has no peace of mind, our nights are sleepless, and we are even more eagar to see that persons reaction next time when they meets us, so even waiting for the same person whom we said we hate. so indirecly you are thinking all the time about the person you hate, so some how you are connected to this bad person, so he DOES mean something to you. As long as you are connected to someone, either by love or by hate,,,their is relationship. So don't get so upset if you are being hated, because you don't know, that by telling you hard words and showing hatred, the opposite person has given you deeper entry in her/his heart. so you are not being hated, but loved....loved even more.

why such a big things to be discussed?????????????????