After marriage girls should work???
By indrajeetpal
@indrajeetpal (161)
India
10 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
6 Apr 07
i think girl should definitely work . Why people don't understand that girls' careers are as much important as boys'. So why she should not work. And do u think that nowadays do all girls only dream about family, children and thats all? They do not dream about the career? Being a girl myself i think I'll make it big in career front and why should I only sacrifice my career for family and children? Both partner should have same responsibilyty towards family. My career is as usuful and important as any boy's career. I hate that particular conservative idea that girls should not work.
@steelmoggy (410)
•
6 Apr 07
If my wife wanted to work I wouldn't stop her. She's her own woman, and although she's my wife I don't own her! :-)
In fact, she worked for several years after we first married, and for a few years earned more than I did.
She no longer works, but that's out of choice - her choice.
If a woman wishes to work, and the family can sort out childcare, why not?
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
6 Apr 07
If girls are not allowed to take employment, they have to work at home and live at home and die as a ordinary woman. If they are allowed to take up a job, the family also will prosper very fast. In this competive world it is necessary for both husband and wife to work to secure their childrens future.
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
30 Mar 07
yes,as a girl,i think i will work after my marriage.i can not believe and understand why some girl would not work after being married.for me ,the job is the same important as other things in my life,such as the marriage,and family.on the other hands,my boyfriend also will support me to go on my working instead of disagreement.lol...
i want to know any others girls notion,you will not keep on working after marriage?talk about it ,come on.lol...
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@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
6 May 07
The day I have to ask any man if I can work is the day, I would apply for a divorce, In case you do not understand what I mean, Women are not subject for men to rule, they do not need your permission or be allowed to do any thing, What kind of person believes he knows more than me. I have the deepest sympathy for your wife if some one was foolish enough to marry you.
@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
14 Mar 07
It can be very boring for a woman to sit home all by herself after marriage.
I think she should work at least until plans are begun to start a family.
Then once kids are born, she SHOULD NOT work. It is the smartest way to do it.
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@theproperator (2429)
• United States
22 Apr 07
I think a lot of this descision has to do with the couple's personal preferances. Sometimes it is necessary, financially, for the wife to work, even if the couple would prefer she not. Other times the woman would prefer to work, even if the husband made enough to support them both. I don't see why this would be a problem, unless there were children and finding childcare was an issue.
@alfonseelric (894)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 07
It depends on many things. Economy of the family, the point of view of the family, and any other things. I will definitely work even if i am married.. and even if we don't have economy problem. That is for satisfaction and self fullfilment. But one thing is.. that being a mother is already a hard work. So if one choose to work and being a mother, they should plan their life wisely...
@deepakchp (341)
• India
10 Apr 07
there is n diffence between girls and boys .both have their own ability to think about work after marriage