Miss my fiance

United States
October 16, 2006 10:44pm CST
My fiance walked out on me last week for a girl he met online. He wants to remain friends. I love him so much that I can't move on. We've been together for 6 years and now it's over. I want him back because I know she won't keep him. What can I do?
10 responses
@CRiTiC (188)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
So tha he could ditch you again and you can suffer again??? Life is better than that...
@nanaji9 (188)
• India
17 Oct 06
u still love him means u r just sita whoever marrries u is very mucky ur ex-fiance is useless fellow dont care for him since u still love him and if u think that u cant marry anyone else then wait for him at the max for 1 yr in this one he will definately know ur value bcoz unstable person him wont be satisfied with her after his return if u still like him them go for marriage
@lokesh61 (550)
• India
17 Oct 06
pray
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
17 Oct 06
You are well rid of him because if he will cheat on you once, he will do it again and if he is ready to break it up over someone he met online then he will do it again. Remain friends - not likely would be what I would tell him, particularly after he was cheating on you. As my darling late grandmother used to say "if they cheat with you they will cheat on you" and "if they cheat once they will do it again". Take careful note of those 2 things my dear. Sure it will be tough, very tough, for a while but be thankful because I think you have had a lucky escape. Cheer up and remember 'you have to kiss a thousand frogs to find your prince'. He is one of the frogs. :)
@pontgtp (967)
• United States
17 Oct 06
That sux, I feel for you. I hope you will be ok
@kthin1 (2)
• United States
17 Oct 06
well think of it this way: if you ever feel the need to get back at him, you could pretend to be someone else and "meet" him online. im sure you could teach him a lesson, and if he learns his lesson, he will only be better for it.
@brett80 (190)
• Australia
17 Oct 06
You will get over that feeling and realise that he was a looser for leaving you after 6 years, especialy after you were engaged. If you don't want to see him that is up to you. I can't believe he said he stil wants to be friends. Tell him to get lost and you go back on the prowl.
@jrk0624 (406)
• United States
17 Oct 06
honey let him go If someone from the net could take him you didn't need him anyway. I know it would be hard after six years but time will heal your heart and it would be hard to be his friend after being togather for six years i know i probably couldn't do it.
• Australia
17 Oct 06
Sweetie, really you are better off withour him. It's only been a week, You will be hurting for a while yet, but the important thing to remember is, don't set yourself up for the same heartache, so don't let him back in. He betrayed you when he was supposed to be practising to be your husband, what would happen if there were kids involved? I understand the despair you must be feeling, surround yourself with people that really do care for you and won't abandon you. Keep your chin up and remember you will be stronger in the end than ever before.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
17 Oct 06
chill, that's the best i can say. i don't wanna be too blunt about saying something, but obviously, you deserve someone better.