If you felt sad today, what helped you to feel happy?
By mimpi
@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
March 14, 2007 8:02am CST
i would like the person, i am sad from, to come to me and say that things shouldn't be the way it had been and he meant it from deep inside.
then we would go to a long drive and cuddle out our heartbreaks. that would be, i guess, a perfect happy day for me.
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11 responses
@bluewings (3857)
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14 Mar 07
Well, nothing can beat that.If the hurt becomes the balm,then the memory of it brings a smile.When this doesn't happen , I treat myself to a good comedy movie.That always cheers me up and reminds me there is so much more to life that I can't afford to be sad.Heck,how can I let someone else steal my share of fun,lol.But I know a perfect day is better and when it's missing ,you have to make an effort to make it perfect.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
15 Mar 07
As for me, I get hurt when my very dear ones upset me. That is when time stops for me. obviously, no one else can ease out the pain. And the balm has to be from the hurt.
Other times, when I am sad and down from superficial stuffs, I bank on my dear ones and get over it no time. These times have never been difficult to muddle through.
I couldnot agree more that a good funny film steers through the sadness. i must say that you are very sensible and poised, which, I struggle to reach.
Thanx for sharing, as always
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
15 Mar 07
As for me, I get hurt when my very dear ones upset me. That is when time stops for me. obviously, no one else can ease out the pain. And the balm has to be from the hurt.
Other times, when I am sad and down from superficial stuffs, I bank on my dear ones and get over it no time. These times have never been difficult to muddle through.
I couldnot agree more that a good funny film steers through the sadness. i must say that you are very sensible and poised, which, I struggle to reach.
Thanx for sharing, as always
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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29 Mar 07
i have up and down days but today was one of the better ones. The look on my kids faces generally does the trick or even just the sun shining, blessed be
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Mar 07
you are indeed lucky! i just hope you all be blessed always.
cheers.....
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
5 Apr 07
If the person that is the reason come ans say to me how sorry is of course help enough to make me feel better.....but I suppose the things the most of the time don't work like this.
Also sometimes the reason we are sad maybe not a person but some bad situations that we live.Anyway many things can make me feel good but the only sure thing is my son's hug .When I feel him arm around me always I feel happy again whatever bad happen to my life this moment.
@advicegirl (95)
• United States
30 Mar 07
When feeling sad, I have found that a good work out at the gym helps to make me feel better. A power walk releases my stress, clears my head and puts me in a better mood. Yoga, getting a massage and meditation have also worked for me.
And if I'm feeling blue on a rainy day, I'll pop in a good movie, have a good laugh and suddenly all is better in my world :)
Zuri
http://askzuri.blogspot.com
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Mar 07
i appreciate, this has worked for me for a couple of times aswell. i remember having splurged myself into all sorts beauty regime and smelt good and felt better.
keep sharing advicegirl.
smiles.....
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
7 Dec 07
It is the smile on the face of my wife, the most innocent smile of my son and the kind words of my parents helped me to regain the lost grounds and the day ends with a happy note. Let it be any problem, I just jot it down on a piece of paper as a work to be done next day and I am in relxed mood.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Dec 07
You are such a wonderful man!! No wonder you are so happy, balanced and just. Pls do not ever change.
smiles..
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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12 Dec 07
I felt sad and lonely yesterday because I am missing both my Son and Hubby..When my BBeloved Hubby phoned me last night and said to me that we have a very strong connection and that when I don't sleep he can't sleep and that when I feel lonely and sad, he feels the same, My heart wanted to split open with joy and sadness all at the same time. This, because we are apart and I am pining now but also because of the fact that I know he really loves me deeply now and that is worth more than all the money in the world, that someone loves me truly.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
13 Dec 07
Yanji, you have a wonderful family. Never feel insecure and sad. You feeling will always be reciprocated, no way it cannot. You are such a lovely human.
Thanks for being my friend.
@peaches20 (147)
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
my friends, the movie that I've watched, my favorite tv program, meaningful conversations, meaningless conversations, my family and a whole lot more! :)
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@hillock (749)
• Qatar
11 Dec 07
i am always happy[cause little things makes me smile!]. i cant help it so i miss those times in which i sit down and cry like a baby. Indeed it makes me feel human to feel the pain.
When im sad i tend to just be silent and listen to my heart. And the saying when it rains it pours is quite applicable to me. Cause when i cry, i cry until i can cry no more.
and when im done crying, i smile..a really big smile cause as they say theres always a rainbow after the rain! and i couldnt wait to see what kind of rainbow im going to have. LOL!
In some events, talking with my close friends indeed lift up my spirit and felt so blessed. thats makes me think that God alwyas makes a reason for us to smile we just look at it especially when we badly needed one!
lastly shopping is a big help too! ^-^
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Dec 07
Such a beautiful thought!! Hillock, I really appreciate.
Cry out your heart, smile earnestly and love as if there is no tomorrow. You are so transparent, I am sure you will get everything in life. Do not ever change.
Smiles...
