do you think its important to disclose everything to your partner??????

No way! I just had this convo with my boyfriend's little brother the other day. My boyfriend doesn't know my 'magic number' and I don't think he needs to know, or that it would improve our situation. Some things are better left unsaid.

well telling ur spouse everything is not bad but not every thing is to be told

I've been married for almost 25 years to the same man. I never thought it was a good idea to tell him EVERYTHING! There are just some things some men can't handle, so I choose to keep those things my own. Most men can't process things like we do and some of the issues or details would only cause heartache or jealousy so why bother. My man knows all there is need to know. What difference would it make to tell him he wasn't the only love in your life?

I feel it is neccessary to let your partner know everything, why should there be secrets between you and your partner, specially regarding the past, if ur partner loves u then they should accept you for who you are..