If I kiss another girl is that cheating?

@kpfingaz (1027)
Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
October 17, 2006 12:36am CST
Tell me what you think cuz I got a situation.
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117 responses
• United States
17 Oct 06
yes, it is considered cheating if you are in a relationship with another person. but if your single, then no its not considerd cheating. when ur in a relationship with some one, your supposed to only do things with that person thats y its called a relationship. IF ur in a relationship but ur thinking of cheating, then u need to end it with that other person ur dating because they dont deserve to be hurt. but be honest with your self, if ur in a relationship, you need to tell the person ur dating you kissed another girl n you think its best you break up so that neither of u get hurt any more then wat u already are thats if ur a real man n u are willing to spare her feelings n let her go bcuz you dont know if it will ever happen again but if you love her with all your heart then try n work things out n try not to do it again
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
18 Oct 06
I totally agree with everything mommy2be said...couldn't have said it better myself!!
@twmoores (566)
• United States
19 Oct 06
yup..yup... said very well
@ArsonCuff (3114)
• United States
17 Oct 06
flip it and think of it like this...would you care if your girlfriend was kissing other people? would you consider THAT cheating? If you care about her then the answer is yes and therefore, if we are going to say all things are equal, you are cheating if you kiss someone else...unless it is like a peck on the cheek french hello sort of a thing ..or your mom..well your mom as long as it is plutonic
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@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Nov 06
Ok. That makes sense. Mayb I cheated.
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Nov 06
Ok. That makes sense. Mayb I cheated.
• United States
18 Oct 06
Very good point. People never think of it that way.
@deitzy (380)
• United States
22 Oct 06
well of course it is cheating if ur gonna kiss a girl then do it with the one you love
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• India
20 Oct 06
No man ,not at all.............if u'll not kiss any other gal then that will be a loss opportunity .just go ahead.
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• United States
22 Oct 06
No offense, but are you serious?
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• India
19 Oct 06
no...
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• Canada
19 Oct 06
It soo issss cheating!
• United States
20 Oct 06
yea
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• United States
19 Oct 06
Of course it is cheating. Would you want her kissing another guy? Would you think that was okay? God Bless
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• Australia
20 Oct 06
depends on the situation, your feeling and the kissing ... but no matter what, you have hurt your girlfriend, and I think she will saw it as cheating (me too!) no matter what you tell her
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@Jonny714 (190)
• United States
19 Oct 06
well i think maybe no if your girlfriend did not find out,but if she did then omg i have clue what going to happen next hehe..
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• United States
20 Oct 06
i think it is cheating.
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• United States
19 Oct 06
YES!!!!! it is cheating, even if she doesnt know
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• United States
19 Oct 06
Do you feel like you cheated? Who cares what we think? If you think that your girl would be hurt if she found out, then why would you risk it. Coming from someone who has been cheated on, I would rather "take a break" if someone was unsure of the relationship, then to keep going along as if nothing was wrong. Then you are being honest with everyone, and you will not be seen as the jerk. If someone can't respect your feelings, then you have to consider if you really want to be with them. I know if it were me, I'd want to be sure that person wanted to be with me.
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@miia_f (26)
20 Oct 06
i dont think it is. i have a bf but kiss girls sometimes. its harmless fun, i find girls sexy but dont think i could date one. plus-he gets to watch some girl on girl action x
@Viper1 (3)
• United States
20 Oct 06
yes, it is considered cheating if you are in a relationship ( Webster Dictionary : To deceive and defraud, to trick, to mislead, to act dishonestly. ) you get the point. and to add my wife is cheating with a co-worker and i have not told her that i know and it has changed the way we act around eachother and it will hurt the one getting cheated on, some people like myself look at a relationship as the one thing thay hold dear to there heart and to cheat on that type of person will brake there heart so bad thay will find it hard to trust again.
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• India
17 Oct 06
If you are in love then it would be cheating. If you want to kiss you kiss ur girlfriend y r u switching on to other.
• United States
18 Oct 06
This is true, also it depends what type of kiss it was and where you kissed the person. But if you wanted to kiss someone why not your partner?
• India
20 Oct 06
whats wrong is kissing guys, its a natural instince and i think you should go ahead with it
@babray06 (1787)
• India
17 Oct 06
If you love another girl then yes it's cheating.
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Nov 06
What if I love them both?
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Nov 06
What if I love them both?
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Nov 06
What if I love them both?
• United States
19 Oct 06
Yes it is cheating! How would you feel if your girlfriend kissed another guy? Im sure you wouldn't be pleased at all. I would be very upset with my husband if he kissed another woman, it makes me question if I can trust him or if he seriously loves me. Come on now you already knew the answer to this question before you even posted it.
• United States
19 Oct 06
Really? Kissing leads to other things at least you didn't do that but still. Do you really love your girlfriend? Have you told her? If so what does she say or think?
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
19 Oct 06
Seriously I didn't think it qualified as cheating.
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
19 Oct 06
I really do love my girlfriend. She knows that cause I tell her that everyday. She found out by going through my cellphone cause some one told her they saw me with the girl. She thinks I did more than kiss her but I didn't. Still she think I cheated on her. Ok I figure now it must be cheating thanks to my myLot friends. Thanks myLot friends.
17 Oct 06
If you are in a relationhip with a girl and then you kiss another girl then yes its cheating (provided it' not your sister of course ;-) ). If you have kissed someone else whilst being in a relationship then you need to think about what you are doing in that relationship in my opinion. You might not think that what you have with your girlfriend is serious but she probably does so be careful!
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@Ljorge (1487)
• United States
18 Oct 06
i don't think so,unless it is hot and heavy kissing. if its just a quick kiss then no.
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
18 Oct 06
Then I guess I cheated but it was not hot and heavy it was more smooth and sensual.
@Ljorge (1487)
• United States
18 Oct 06
sorry dude you cheated.
@bayboy (986)
• United States
20 Oct 06
nope i do it all the time
• United States
22 Oct 06
How would you feel if you gave someone your heart and trust and they hurt you like that?