where is your first love now?

I was 16 and we were together for three years. I still talk to him on occasion, see him if we are in the same state. We're still good friends.

I had my first love at the age of 16....its not love actually....its infactuation.....but we had a fight nd got seperated....she is now married nd leading a happy life...i hope so...me too hav no thoughts of that love...

I literally grew up with my first love across the street from me. For a few years I hung around with her brother and didn't have too much interest in her. So I thought. When I was 14 and her 13 I began to notice her more. Like you said puppy love. I'd walk with her to school but usually walked home with my buddies. We giggled and teased for about a year and a half until my 16th birthday. That's when after my party we went outside and just as she was crossing the street to go home, she came back and kissed me on the cheek. That was a big step for us because we hung out with totally different crowds. Let's just say I hung around a crowd her parents didn't approve of, at all. We got quite a bit closer over the next several months until her father found out and that was pretty much it. Except for talking to her until late at night either sitting at the street corner or if I was laying on the hood of her father's car late at night. He would usually come out and chase me back across the street. As much as we wanted it to be it wasn't going to happen. We started dating other people and after I graduated high school I moved away to college. I am sick to my heart that I never went back for her. To the best of my knowledge she's married with a child or two and the worst part is I found out she lives about 3 states west from me. Her name is Maryjo. That is a name forever burned on my heart. Just thinking about her at this moment chokes me up. I brought this up briefly in one of my discussions about religion being a factor in determining who you may end up with. ‹(°¿°)›

ya i hav my first love at my age of 18 as i hav srarted 18 my mind started thinking well abt love. so now i am in love....... is tat love succeeded or not i will be knowning soon......

Mine was when I was 12 or 13 years old and that after an eternity of waiting, frustration, and giving up she is now my best friend.

Gee, I don't know where he's at. He was a good looking guy. However, he cheated on me, so he turned out to be quite a jerk. lol I last heard that he married the girl, he cheated on me with, and they had several kids, and he was cheating on her. Guess she was a lucky girl. lol

Hello secretbear!(",) This topic of your is very intriguing. I'm guilty of reading other mylotters responses and I did enjoy it very much. I'm sorry I have nothing to share about this topic because I don't have experience anything I can consider first love. It's good that others are still friends with their first love even if they have not ended up with each other. Just enjoy reminiscing those happy moments together and leave the hurts written in the sand where it will be washed away. Great day!(",)

my first love is the father of my 9 months old daughter. we ahd a relationship for 7 years, then we got married and are happy since now. it has been 2 years after that and we are a sweet little family and we love each other like crazy till today

hiii secretbear, i am glad that you actually got over the pain of leaving your first love.but i would say i am lucky enough that i didn't face any such situation till now and hope not to either.initially i was very dumb kind of person,so i hadn't any boyfriends at that time.even if anybody shows some sign of getting into relationships with me i ignore.i was more concentrated on my studies. i had my first love,and last also,when i was 20.though it wasn't from my side but gradually i developed a liking for him due to his caring attitude and behaviour towards me.and still i am continuing with my relationship.its been 3 long years.we had our engagement recently 2 months back and i am going to marry him soon.thats my story.a bit silly and funny.lol...

Yes I had my first love, unfortunately we broke up almost three months ago, I also cried ocean for him I never done that before with my other ex bf, there are still days and nights that I cried for him. But I know even if he's my first love I have to accept the reality that my first love will never be mine forever and that I can't spend the rest of my life with him. I dont know where he is now. But wherever he is I'm hoping that everything is doing great for him.

i dont know where he is... maybe he still on the province and married too like me, or maybe hes out of the country... i dont have any idea

I was 14 when I met my first love and we dated all through high school and broke up the summer before i went off to college. He didn't finish high school and last I knew he had spent a few years in prison on and off while I graduated college. He was a sweetheart, but he just couldn't stay out of trouble. I am so glad that he didn't influence me or halt my education. I think I had a pretty good head on my shoulders and I knew better.

yes I have.ten years ago until now,she's just my lover.and we very happy now.

i had my 1st love at age 17 but broken up just after 3 days.. Maybe its our age difference (she's 14) that make us broke.. Since then i have never heard from her again and the last i heard about her was in 8 yrs ago..

I had a first love. We both loved Johnny Horton, he was the singer who wrote "North to Alaska" which shows how far back in time it was. So since that was in the 1960s, I have no idea where he is now and frankly I do not care. He was a mama's boy and he probably married someone whom his mother approved.

i had mine when i was in highschool, aged 14/15, we knew each other through a common friend...we kinda hit it pretty good as friends...then i started writing her letters...love letters, (cellphones were still a luxury then)...i ended up having a box (shoebox) full of them...but the fact is, I can say that we loved each other, but never really had a chance to make it official...don't ask me why...hehe then highschool ended and we had to go our separate ways...so it just ended after a while...but i still thought of her for 3 years or so...we were able to hook up again (through the net) 2 years ago she's still in college (like me) but she already lived her dream, somewhat. She's a member of a choir and theyre joining international competitions...It was her voice that captured me at the start...we still meet occasionally (through the net, hehe) but none of the romantic stuff now...

I met my first love 6 years ago. I thought I had been inlove before but realized I wasn't. I am now married to him and we are celebrating our 1 year anniversary on the 31st :)

How did you get a stranger to love you? How is it possible for your crush to love you? Sounds kind of Far-fetched to me.

oh..that first love..i'm confused who is really my first love. i had this classmate and we go along much of the time during first year in college. i had this crush on him. he transferred to another school during our second year. we text and call each other..sweet nothings you know.we even say we love each other that much but i think we just have this misconception of our feelings.then on my third year in college he returned to our school to pursue the same course as mine...that's the time he became my boyfriend...my first ever boyfriend at the age of 21(hahahaha older huh?!) at first, i found it exciting and uhmm..mixed emotions since he is my first boyfriend..but i never knew how to handle the relationship..in short, we broke up. after three months, there's this schoolmate from high school whom i met at a certain meeting of alumni homecoming. i found him nice and kind...he is my second boyfriend and hopefully the last. now, i am deeply in love with him and we are turning 4 years this coming christmas (ohhh...so sweet!)...thru him i found the true love i've been longing for... but oh..forgive me..(because everytime my first boyfriend and I meet, my heart really is like a drum..like a drum)..joke...we are friends right now and we see each other everytime there's an outing or a simple reunion.

my first love is my bf right now. we've known each other for almost 7 years already and he was my crush way back in my college days. i never knew we would end up being together. he courted me almost 6 years ago and i dumped him. we have no communication for a few years but when we saw each other last year we never let each other go.. :) now we just celebrated our aniversary and so happily in love with each other. i just hope and pray that we'll stay this way for a lifetime and more.. :)