Friends! Help me . I'm Sinking
By samrat16
@samrat16 (2442)
India
March 15, 2007 4:09am CST
Hii, I am searching for new friends who can respond to my discussions and even I'm eager to reply to their discussions . people here on mylot just seems to take and take only they don't understand that if somebody is responding to them even he wants people to reply to his discussions. I don't say reply to all my discussions but respond to dissscussions which are of your interests .
Am I wrong to desire so . So anybody interested in making friends????
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33 responses
@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
15 Mar 07
I have experienced this a few times myself, but I just keep on trodding along on my merry way..lol I'm always interested in making friends and I do surely try to respond to all my friends discussions, as long as I have something to say in them. So if you decide to make a new friend in me, I will help you out as best I can.
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@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
15 Mar 07
No problem. Looking forward to future discussions with you. :)
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@neertow20 (86)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 07
thanks for your request..and i considered we're friends now:) don't worry much about this..i'll make sure i'll respond and then it's up to you:)nice to know you:)
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
16 Mar 07
You can add me as a friend and I will respond to any of your discussions that i have a good explanation for. I'll be looking for your invite! =P
@sandy2k6 (393)
• India
15 Mar 07
Ya, same here. I have many friends in my friend's list but I hardly see any response from them to the discussions, I start. Sometimes, I wonder that are there none in my friend's list whose interests matches to that of mine. Of course, one cant answer to each and every discussions but atleast I expect a response from someone who has knowledge and experience on certain topics. I guess, they never visit "discussions my friends started" or else they would have responded as anyhow they responding to other's postings. I suggest, one should make "notify on" so that they will know in their emails that someone in thier friends list has started a new discussion.
@few00cent (2183)
• India
15 Mar 07
i agree with you on some extent but am not much active here as i do posting in other site.these days mylot is paying no good.i come here when i get bored posting in other site..lol but seriously i make much better in other site then in this one.anyways i will reply in your discussion whenever am here.
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
hi! what do you mean your sinking? would that mean your rate keeps going down and down? Does the star rating go down if you started a discussion and nobody responded on it? If that's so, I think I'm now afraid to start new discussions.Anyhow, it's not wrong to desire for your friends to respond to your discussions, i guess it's pretty normal to expect them to support you hence,respond to your discussion.maybe they're just really can's say anything or have not yet read your discussion.hang in there! friends will save you.
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@scorpiostar (971)
• Lithuania
16 Mar 07
Let be friends!:)
Agree with u, am member just around a week and like this site. Usually I make responds to topic of others , but receive not too much answers to mine. I don't know why? Maybe my themes arent interesting or actual to develop a long discussion?
U can add me as friend , then i will receive alert by mail about ur new discussion and will try to answer, ok?
Good luck and don't lose hope! Enjoy a time u are spending here.
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@obang1483 (250)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
oh....hello there too number 117!!! good luck to you too, three, four, five... that's a lot of good luck for you.LOL
tnx!!!
@scorpiostar (971)
• Lithuania
16 Mar 07
Hello!from number of ur posts (5) I understood u are a new member, right? or u are "lazy" to post topic?:):):) Well I know it isn't easy to deal here:) Am not "old" one too. There are a people who are spending much time here online. Ususally me can enjoy this site about 2-3 hours a day, and sure at weekends can "live" here at nights:)
So if u would like to add me as friend, I'll receive I'll receive information by mail about ur new topic and will try to answer as soon as it I will be able.
Good luck !
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@obang1483 (250)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
oh hi!!! I'm a new user of my lot, I can be friends with everybody!!, I love discussions, I love everything that goes with it.. I just saw your post and it is pretty interesting to see somebody on the same ground as me. looking for friends,basically,because I'm new here... I don't even have any idea how this works..well I have at least,but so little..step by step hopefully I will master this. woooosh...FRIENDS!!!!!
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@scorpiostar (971)
• Lithuania
16 Mar 07
Hi number one!:):):) Wish u the best luck here!
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@lenywp (1963)
• Australia
16 Mar 07
Hi samrat, I have been looking for a person just like you for a long time! So that we could post in each other's discussions and give each other positive ratings etc..! I'm going to send you a friend request, so accept it if you like. See you around.
:)
@Jemina (5770)
•
16 Mar 07
Okay, you got another one in the person of me. My wish for you is to get more responses for your discussions. I used to just answer posts and not start my own. Until one day I realize I too want to start some discussions. I'll try to look into your other posts as well. Good luck, best regards!
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@yanjiaren (9031)
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16 Mar 07
I have over 250 friends and hardly 90% of them have ever responded to my discussions so it depends what you mean by friends. I really don't just want to keepadding non reciprocal friends on my list. There should be alittle give and take. If you are asking friendship then it has to be a little fair..I ambeing quite frank here as I just don't want tobe swamped in my inbox and not be able to domy side properly. I feel the same as you..at least now and then we should respond toour friend's discussions..not never lol.
@omer_ahmed_tabarik (1057)
• Pakistan
16 Mar 07
Ok, let's be friends then. I have only 5-6 so I probably need some. There's no problem with me being friends with someone until he/she is good to me. Even if he doesn't reply to my topics or so on.
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@domesticengineer (576)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Hey samrat16 you could include me as one of your friends here in mylot. I'll try to answer to your started discussions as much as I could. I'm usually spending 3 hours a day on mylot so I'll try to look for your discussions.
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