a friends love...
By coolsexychix
@coolsexychix (128)
Philippines
8 responses
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
17 Mar 07
can you effectively tell me the difference between a lover and a true friend
@coolsexychix (128)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
yeah somehow i agree with you that a lovers love is more intense, more prioritized, more satisfaction compare to a friends love BUT A friends love is more UNCONDITIONAL...why? a friend's love will accept the you for either with your negative or postive attitude...accepts the way we eat, the way we dress, the way we talked (if sometimes girls nagg which a lover cant accept) and there is also called "a friend with benefits" same benefits with a lovers do (but still no string attached) a friends always accepts for us if sometimes we feel b*tchy or f**cked up or for being so dumb sometimes...which a lover's love cant accept...if you and your lover had a fight? who'd do you call? who'd do you seek for some advice? who'd do you call to back you up? a friend is always a partner in crime to bust your bf/gf when they are having a nother girl/boy? A friend can do a tons of things because a friend's love is always UNCONDITIONAL....
@Charlie_28 (78)
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18 Mar 07
Ya, That the true statement, you discuss. A Friends love is better than a lover, just because friend don't have any demand from You, friend does'nt want you to do anything as he/she likes, but he/she just want to with you, because he/she love to be with you. On Other side lover have demand, lover have so much tensions. But If your friend is your lover, that would be soooooooo nice. In that case, he/she will not cheat you, and even you can't cheat him/her, because First she/he is your friend and second she/he is some one special for You.
@coolsexychix (128)
• Philippines
18 Mar 07
yeah charlie true a friends love never demands for your time, and dont demand to see you all the time..not comapre to lovers love always demands everything, for your time, for your attention, for your your love and if your lover cant get any of those things he will surely leave you...
@coolsexychix (128)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
yes i agree with you...no matter what you are a friend will never leave you...
@marilynlynn (994)
• United States
15 Mar 07
If you have a lover like i have, you would never say that a friends love is better. A friend might not always stay.Looks as though you need to find the right Lover,soul-mate,best friend, i did.
@coolsexychix (128)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
actually i have this friend...and i rather choose my friend that my lover why? i have spent most of my time with him than my lover and i dont have any feelings for him...he is my bestfriend....we've been friends now for almost 10 years and we've been through thick and thin...as if he is my partner in crime...
@joanna08 (394)
• Philippines
18 Mar 07
" a friend can love you more than a lover can " -- i believe in this saying. I kept telling my best friend that she dont need boys to make her happy. a friends love is definitely different from lovers but it is bonded ways more than love could. :))
