blaaahhh!!

@dfinster (3528)
United States
March 15, 2007 12:18pm CST
Have you ever had days where you just can't get motivated to do anything? I've been having a ot of them lately. Even getting out of bed is starting to feel like a chore. I don't know if it's the weather or just me but I need to get some motivation because I just feel really crappy right now.
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@villageanne (8553)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I am so sorry that you having those kinds of days. I suggest that you go see a doctor. I have been going through the same thing the last few months. It has gone as far as having anxiety attacks now. I am in constant pain and the neorologist said that I am getting depressed and put me on meds. I just did not even want to get out of bed. I hope you feel back to yourself soon.
@dfinster (3528)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I am on an anti-depressant. I really think maybe it's just that time of the year. 'Ya know, a little touch of cabin fever maybe?????LOL!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
19 Mar 07
So sorry to hear that you're in pain like that. I hope that gets better for you. Take care and be well!
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
10 Apr 07
Yes I suffer with this a lot, being currently unemployed doesn't help because I have nothing to get out of bed for, I feel so unmotivated, it's not for the want of trying, I apply for jobs but never get anywhere, Tuesdays is easiest because I have a jobclub, but other days I think what is the point in getting up? I try and set myself goals and targets and having things to look forward to helps. I am going away on my retreat next weekend it helps to save the monotony of life.
@dfinster (3528)
• United States
11 Apr 07
I hope you have a great time on your retreat and hope that it helps you get out of your funk.
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
19 Mar 07
Coffee. Coffee. Coffee. Coffee. Coffee. And more coffee. ha ha Yes, I feel like that too often. Right now it is very late and I can not go to bed because it is too hot to sleep. My partner can sleep if there is a car alarm going off outside. But me...I am one of those people that have to be very cool and relaxed to sleep. Instead, I do that stare at the ceiling...just thinking. And because of that, I do not even want to roll out of bed when I do finally get to sleep. But nooooo, I have children coming in asking for breakfast and having to get ready for school. So, to help, I drink coffee. I love my coffee now. Which, I did not start drinking coffee until a couple months ago now. has it been a couple months...maybe not. But now, I want my coffee and caffeine to help me get motivated. :) Sorry to hear that you are feeling crappy. Maybe your iron is low. Try some vitamins...maybe that will help. :)
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
19 Mar 07
LOL!!! You sound like you're me. My hubby is the same way. He can sleep anytime, anywhere!LOL! I don't know where I'd be without my good friend caffeine,LOL! I actually have given thought to starting myself on vitamins, have to talk to my Dr. first because I have a chronic condition so I have to be careful w/ anything I take. Thanks for giving me a little smile and your suggestions. Always nice to hear from you Brokentia!
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@JashleyB (1441)
• United States
9 Apr 07
I have those days...It's bad.
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
9 Apr 07
You're tellin' me.
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• United States
16 Mar 07
I'm glad to learn that I'm not the only one who feels unmotivated and lazy. I've been having this lack of motivation and strength to start the day for two weeks now. I know why I'm like this, though. It's the weather change. This month is the transition phase between winter and spring, and I'm having difficulty adjusting, no matter how hard I try to shake it off. I'm also a bit edgy these days. I'm having difficulty because this is my first winter, and I'm a Filipino who just arrived a few months ago to work here in the U.S. Nice discussion!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
19 Mar 07
Welcome to the USofA!! Thanks for your comments!
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@jennysp8 (855)
• United States
11 Apr 07
This happens to me at least once a week. I feel like I'm in a fog and just don't get anything done. It's not that I'm too busy - because on those days I don't do anything. I am not sure the reason for this. But even thinking about of how time I waste in my "fog" makes me upset.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
9 Apr 07
I know the feeling! It could be what your eating or maybe even depression. I would also get your sugar checked out for diabetes. Or maybe what your just needing is vitamin with a energy booster supplement added. Well I am hoping that you are feeling better at this time since this was 4 weeks ago but if not then something is seriously wrong and needs to be checked out by a doctor but if you want you can check out the enegy vitamins first for about a week to get good into your system and then see how you feel because low iron and other things can be wrong to cause those problems..
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
9 Apr 07
I'm feeling better, I know it's not my depression because I'm on an antidepressant that's working great for me. I think it's just a bad case of cabin fever.
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• United States
9 Apr 07
yea im having one of those days today,.lol..i couldnt get out of bed for the longest time..and i dont feel like doing anything but sit on my tooshy and play here on mylot lol..i picked up a few things..but then i just started to get even more tired,i deff think its the weather..when its sunny and nice out i have so much energy.,i just want to do things..but this cold and new snow we got has made me soo depressed..:( im so ready for summertime!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
9 Apr 07
Me too...it's snowing here again today. Just a few weeks ago it was so beautiful out and I felt on top of the world. It's definately the weather.
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• United States
15 Mar 07
I am sorry you feel blaahh. It happens to everyone, time to time. However, if it is something that starts to happen daily, then it is depression. So, watch and see how it goes. I hope you will feel better dear. Here is a big ((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))
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• United States
16 Mar 07
You are so sweet. I do hope today you are feeling better. Are you? Thank you for the best response too, I do appreciate that.
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Thanks for the encouragement and the hug! Always nice to hear from you and take part in your discussions!!!!
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• Philippines
15 Mar 07
that happens to me this morning! and yeah it is really sucks. i have so much to do and yet i dont have a little onze of an energy to do it. i really dont know i get myself back all i do is let myself feel the day of unproductioveness and get myself little by little.
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Yup! I hear 'ya about all the things needing to be done, it's been pretty slow going but it's getting better. Thanks!
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@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Yup! I've had a few of them in a row! I am on Spring BReak (I am a college professor). I had a list of things that I was going to accomplish over break. Guess what? Not a single thing on that list has been accomplished! I can't blame weather, it has been a balmy 74 degrees each day here where I live. I just keep getting distracted and am enjoying moving through the day without a care in the world! Of course, come next Monday morning, I am going to wish that I had cared!!!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Oh My Gosh!! 74 degrees???? I've got to take a vacation to a warm place like that,LOL! Good luck with going back to work on Mon. just remembe, summer's right around the corner!!
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@jojopuff (520)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Oh yes. In fact, I feel like that today. I know I have some errands to run, but I just don't feel like getting out of my pajamas! lol. I think everyone has those days once in while, though. Don't worry, the feeling will pass and you will find the motivation sooner or later!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
16 Mar 07
OK, this makes me feel a little better. I was in my sweats until after 5 today. Thanks for the humor to know I'm notthe only one like this today,LOL!
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• Philippines
15 Mar 07
Yes, this happens to me once in a while. And, the truth is, I do not look forward to it coming once again. It does not feel good at all when I feel so lazy, like there is nothing at all that I am capable of doing. These are the times when I do not give any effort to get up in the morning until I feel the pangs of hunger.
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
16 Mar 07
That's how I felt today. I finally ate something around 6 tonight. Thanks for commenting.
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@graham31 (487)
15 Mar 07
Well funny you should post this discussion cause thats how i'm feeling.Getting up in the morning is no problem and taking my dogs out isn't a problem either.But when i get into work i just can't be bother.It's not like me usually i'm in work and starting straight away but lately i've ben going in and standing talking then by the time i do start i really really can't be bothered starting.I look forward to going home to just sit and relax. I'm going to have to get motivated cause in my work the more i do the more i earn.It's called bonus system
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I think work has a big thing to do with me too. In my job I have to run for people all day and I guess somedays I wish someone ran for me. As for yur bonus system at work, "GO, GO, GO!!!" LOL!
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Apr 07
maybe you jsut bored or something..sometimes i feel taht also but i have to think positively and start a day with energy and smile in the face..if we are going to think that way maybe it helps.
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
14 Apr 07
boring baby - boring baby image
im feeling a little boring my self.. i don't know how to set my mood back? im little bit heave when i wake up from bed this morning also.
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@Carrie26 (1587)
• United States
11 Apr 07
Yes I have some of those days as well.Especailly now since my husband has been deployed for 3 months.So dressing my kids in the morning and then finally getting to myself to dress myself seems like a chore.LOL.Also putting the trash out for trash day,and cleaning house can take a toll.Someetimes I would just like to lay in bed and sleep them days off but I cant since I have 2 kids that need me and my housework would pile up.Still it would be nice to snap my fingers or twinkle my nose like Bewitched and the housework would be done.LOL.
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
11 Apr 07
It would be great to be able to do that nose thing some days! LOL!
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• United States
12 Apr 07
I have many days like this. If I can ever get started, I'm usually over it pretty quickly. But sometimes I just give in to it and don't do anything. Weather has no effect on me. I love a good rainy day and those are usually my most productive. But some days when it rains, I just want to curl up on the couch with a puzzle book and watch TV. I hope your day gets much better.
@dfinster (3528)
• United States
12 Apr 07
With me, I definately think t's weathr related for me.
@seamonkey (1976)
• Ireland
12 Apr 07
I think today might be one of those days! I slept poorly last night and just have no ambition for anything today. It's Easter vacation for the kids, too, so it is nice to be able to chill out and geta slow start if that is what we feel like doing. If I perk up after a cup of coffee, I might take the kids down for new shoes, and later if it is warm, the dog to the beach. Nothing too complicated!
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@dfinster (3528)
• United States
12 Apr 07
I have a hard time doing anything when I don't get enough sleep.
@snappea (47)
• United States
12 Apr 07
Last week was like that for me. I was worried about slipping into a depression but apparently I am starting to snap out of it. How have you been sleeping ? I know one factor in my episode like that was that I was a bit sleep deprived that week. It also might have been a symptom but I tend to see that if I'm depressed I usually oversleep instead of undersleep.
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