Love marriages Vs Arrange marriages

India
March 15, 2007 6:52pm CST
I mean, thrs allways this disscussion all around (especially in India) so as to whether love or arrange marriages r better? I personally feel, it doesnt really matter! Its simple if two people are to find themselves comfortable with each other they vl b irrespective of the type of marriage!! Thn they say arrange ones last s longer than love marriages... thrs a simple logic for it.. In case of arranged marriages, couple takes sometime to adjust with each other.Its like they make thr likes n dislikes knwn to each othr as n whn things happen. I mean he adjust on occasions n sometimes the femine partner adjusts!! and ths sometime is quiet Relative!! Its allmost years before they knw each other n b4 they strt the wild part of misunderstandings and stuff!! In a love marriage the couple has allready gone thru all the above excercises!!! They expect thr partner to very well knw thr likes and dislikes and in doin so they leave very little room for adjustment!!! I mean its all abut they get with each other frm marriage onwards n its not abut IF they were in love with each other b4 marriage or not. ITS SIMPLE IF MARRIAGE HAS TO SURVIVE,, LOVE IS TO EXSIST!! THT B B4 MARRIAGE OR AFTER MARRIAGE!!!
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