Please put your suggesstion!!

India
March 15, 2007 8:13pm CST
Dear friends, I loved a girl..but I tried to prove my love and just lost her...she is really a nice girl...whatever I did was looking right from my point of view at that moment...but she never appreciated my ways and that hurt her. I m truly loving her still...and I can't forget her. I apologized for all hurting, but she never responded. Because someone else was also loving her..he proposed her and now she also loves him. I don't have any expectations to be together with her..but she didn't respect my love that hurts me a lot.Even I asked her tell me the mistakes so that I can improve on that side. But she was not at all interested. I have no any negative feelings for her..but m always there for her if she will be in any trouble. What should I do so that she can respect my love even if not accepting it. I need kind suggestion...
3 responses
@babynanan (133)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Just move on!!! I know it's hard coz you love her that much but then maybe she is not interested on you and you are just wasting your time on her. Give your love to someone else who is more deserving and can reciprocate your love. You'll never know that someone is just in front of you, waiting to be noticed.. Stay happy!! If she won't accept your sori, then it's not your loss anymore. At least you've tried your best already and there's no regret after all. For me, in order to forget someone. I divert my attention to other things that i enjoy. Good luck! :)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
I am sorry to know this happened to you. First, can you please clarify what you mean when you say she doesn't respect your love? In times like this, i suggest the very first thing you do is accept it. Accept the fact that she doesn't respect you (whatever you mean by that). Try to move on. How? Divert your attention and time to other things, find a new friend, do the things you enjoy. You know, stuffs that will make you forget about her, spend more time on those. It's never easy to forget someone whom you've loved. It just takes courage and time to do so.
• India
16 Mar 07
I am really sorry about whatever happened, it happens to most of the people out there and we have to accept it. I feel that if this girl is not interested in you then you should also probably move on and forget her. I understand that it would be tough for you, but its the best thing to do. Go to her for the last time say sorry. And if she refuses, then say that 'sorry i bothered you all this time, i wont do it anynore.' Try this it sometimes works. Let me know if it does. If it doesn't then dude....just MOVE ON.