Give me a comment?

Malaysia
March 15, 2007 8:48pm CST
I had been separated with my ex wife a years ago. I had 2 childs. my childs is under care with my ex wife. every week i came to take my childs to stay with me. i never talk or discuss with my ex wife..about our childs. Due to the she never reply my message or my call if i wanted to call her mobile to chat with my childs. So i decided i dun want to say anything..or discuss anything about our childs with my ex wife. So what ever happen to my childs i only know from my frenz who neigbours to my ex wife. Let say i want to take my childs i had to ask my frenz so my frenz will inform my ex wife. I dunno how long it will take this kind of situation. i don't want my childs be a victim due to their parents mistake. Can some give me a comment?
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Barin Mehta -Healwell
@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
30 May 07
What ever happened in between you people but now what you both are following is not healthy for the children! Because you both are responsible for them! You both have understood the need of your kids and according to them you have to decide that with whom the kids will stay and how other arrangements should be done! If you both can do this with the help of friends and relatives and at least dont promote prejudice with each other and accept the fact that you can become good friends for the kids then it would be better! I suyggest that you go and tell/ ask frankly to her besides this situation and as human being what you can do, you both have to do for kids!
Connie1013
@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
16 Mar 07
You should try to talk to her. If you can't do it, one-on-one, ask a friend or contact the courts for help. They can find a person to come inbewteen you 2 and help solve stuff. I don't know how supportive you have been or if you pay child support on time but I do know you said it's been a year ago. Maybe she is still upset about the seperation. Good Luck!