Why do young men prefer mature women?

@naty1941 (2336)
United States
March 16, 2007 12:44am CST
I have a friend that told me he likes to date women 15 years his senior because they are faithful, they are not jealous and do not play games. I know several couples where the woman is from 5 to 20 years older than the male. What is your opinion on young men dating older women?
8 responses
• United States
16 Mar 07
I personally think it's just wrong. It's ageism and stereotyping. It leaves young women with admirable qualities alone and single while the cougars are getting all the good-quality, well-behaved men. It's unfair.
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@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
16 Mar 07
You might be right. Thank you for your response. LOL I like the word cougars.
• United States
16 Mar 07
That's the term for older or middle-aged women who go after or go out with younger men.
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@lexxie3 (52)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 07
"some" men prefer mature women because of financial reasons.. they just want financial support.. they think that they will be able to get their material needs through mature women. and of course there are few who actually fall in love with mature women,, because of the reason that most mature women are loyal and more experienced in the field of romance..
@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
24 Mar 07
You are correct many men want that financial stability that some mature women can give them. Thank you for your response.
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
Well my opinion on men dating older women is the same as it is for women dating older men. As long as both people are in the relationship for the right reasons, I think it's great. I can understand anyone wanting to date someone that's a little older, as older people are more likely to be set in their lives and actually mature enough to be in a faithful relationship which are two important factors.
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@suscan (1955)
• United States
17 Mar 07
It seems to be a trend,I honestly don't understand it. We have two marriages in our family that the two inlaws (women) are older by about 10-12 years.
@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
17 Mar 07
It is common in California for older women to marry younger men. I think it has to do with the Hollywood scene. Women say, "if such and such actress did it, why can't I?"
@palpalsky (899)
• United States
16 Mar 07
well i have also noticed that guys do get attracted towards older women ..well infact one of my guy friend was also telling me this ..well i think they find them more mature and exprienced ..that is why young men pefer mature women ..
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@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
17 Mar 07
Thank you for your response; experience and maturity can make the difference.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
16 Mar 07
I believe that is Oedipus complex. Because they were with their mothers for so long, that's apparent their mothers left a very profound impression. That's the same reason why we women prefer mature men.
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@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
17 Mar 07
Thank you for your response. You do have a point it could be the oedipus complex.
• United States
16 Mar 07
It can be for a variety of reasons. I know someone who dated older women because he was looking for a mother figure and that person provided him guidance he didn't get at home, some figure that older women will give it up more easily in the bedroom, they are more experienced both sexually and otherwise.
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15 Apr 21
In India it does not happen. Men and women prefer partners of same age group.