can somebody help me how to refer a friend here in mylot?

hey there, also a newbie here in mylot, anyway just add you up, and when u approves you already add new friend, sometimes it takes to spend a lot of time to search for the friend you are looking for, going to anothers profile and scanning his or her friends and you can select from his/her friends and add them, don't be bothered if you were denied, just think its not yor lost its theirs...hehehehe!!!!sometimes a short message that attracts their attention is better to add you up...i hope it helps