is being a good cook attracts the man you like?
By aengel062700
@aengel062700 (13)
Philippines
9 responses
@dream2night (624)
• Latvia
16 Mar 07
I think it is atractive:) But I believe everyone would be atacted to the person who is good cook. Friends come for dinner and apreciate your work. But i don't think good cooking is the thing what can keep your man in the house. It can be +, but not the main thing. I believe that good relationship is based on emotions - to make both people feel needed.
@eshuniki (132)
• India
19 Mar 07
Yes it certainly does attract a man if u r agood cook.There is also a saying that goes "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach".So if u r agood cook then its half battle won.There will be more parties to show off how good cook the wife is.So been a good cook is also important to attract a man.
@babyhar (1335)
• Canada
19 Mar 07
I think even before my other half had ended up tasting my cooking. He was attracted to me before hand.. I think because he loves my cooking though, it is one of the things that he loves about me. He loves how I seem to always come up with new dishes for dinner each night. And he says each time I had prepared something for him that it has satisfied his stomach or craving each & every time. He says I have such unique ideas & I have made him more open-minded to trying a variety of different foods occasionally.
I do not believe though that my other half is attracted to me only based upon my cooking though. I feel he is attracted to me for deeper reasons than just because he finds me a good cook. I think he quite enjoys that I am a good cook though. As I am able to prepare meals for us that are not only healthy, but are full of flavor to. I believe men like when a woman is a good cook because it makes there life's a little easier sometimes so they don't always have to.. Come home from work to prepare a meal for the two of you.
I think some people may be attracted to a good cook yes because they are able to satisfy your cravings, along with your stomach. And they would be more than willing to invite others over, because they know how good of a cook there partner is. But in all honesty I believe the reason people are attracted to others is because of something so much deeper than just how they may be able to satisfy the other persons stomach.
In conclusion.. I believe in my case that my other half is attracted to me more for other reasons instead of only just how I am able to satisfy his stomach with my cooking. If anything I think one of the things he likes about me as a person.. Is how good of a cook I am.. How I am always preparing unique, yet different dishes that have a variety of different flavors to them each time.
I don't believe that is the reason he was attracted to me in the first place though. I think he was attracted to me for who I was as a person. If anything I think him having someone whom can satisfy his stomach with there cooking.. Is just a bonus for him when it comes to our relationship! . .
Thanks for allowing me to share! xx
@jsae29 (1120)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
I guess so, remember the saying, a way to a man's heart is through his stomach. A lot of my guy friends told me that they like women who knows how to cook. So I guess it is a plus factor.
@saheli (79)
• India
19 Mar 07
Hello friend,
I think you can pleased a man by making delicious food for him, but its not that way that he is only attracted to you because you can satisfy his stomach. Being a good cook is only a add on quality in you. There is a Indian saying that "A man way to heart goes by his stomach." But as far my concern, I will not be interested in a man whose heart way goes by his stomach.
@reeze_828 (137)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
The way to a mans heart is through his stomach!
I belive in that because my special aomeone is always asking me to cook for him!
He really likes my dishes, especially my menudo and chop suey!
I know thoose dishes are simple but he loves itc when im the one who cooks it!
@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I had never cooked much of anything when I met my husband! I was still living at home right after graduating from college. I helped my mom get dinner ready, but hardly ever actually cooked anything on my own. So when we got married, it was a learning process for me! lol!
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
16 Mar 07
He was attracted to me before he found out that I was a good cook. I would have to say that it does make the relationship easier. If I bake him cookies or make his favorite food it is easier to get over a bump in our relationship.
@creematee (2810)
• United States
16 Mar 07
If that's the case, my hubby would be married to his mom!!! SHe's one of the best cooks I know. :) Fortunately, She's shared recipes, tips, and other secrets with me.