What will you do if you learned that your husband has an affair with other girl?

Philippines
March 16, 2007 8:58am CST
this is the least thing i want to think of. i dont know how can i react maybe my blood will go up on my head.. you? what will you do?
4 responses
@iamdang (61)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
i've always considered myself as aggressive, but when it comes to cases like this, i'm as weak as a lamb. i never can overcome for a long time the feeling of depression. i don't think i can forgive my husband for cheating on me. infidelity is a mortal sin in a romantic relationship, so i might as well end the marriage. i cannot stand the thought of him loving or liking a woman, other than me. when it comes to love, i want to be the one and only, nothing less. i deserve all the love, attention a man can offer. me... and me alone
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
im with you.. woman deserves to be loved. we are not only a birth-giving machine but also a partner in all aspect of life.
• Philippines
18 Mar 07
correct:-)
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
hmn pretty tough question. Anyway, if i caught my hubby having an affair with another girl, I will first ask him his reasons. If reasons are valid with evidence I will give him his second chance. If not? I am sorry but i will have our marrige annulled. He will never see his kid again.
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
the reason may come up with the negative side of the girl. if you think you gave him the best of you do you think he may have a valid reason? you are kind for giving him a second chance. maybe you love your husband so much regardless of his unfaithfulness. it is very easy to say the marriage anullment but it came out in our mouth just that easy when we are mad..
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
i dont know... hope that will never come... but if that worst situation comes... i dont know what am i gonna do with my husband, maybe i can kill him or something... i really dont know... because when were really mad we dont know what to do in times like that...
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
yes i agree with you.. they say man is polygamous in nature but thats not an excuse. we all have emotions. when im mad i cant control myself to do or say something which is out of my control..
@lbbaby (489)
• China
17 Mar 07
I don't know.. but I would like he told me in his mouth, I know that would be very sad when I heard of that. But I still want to see the truth.