cryin sis

I am really sorry that you lost your mother.But you should not be crying all the time.Please try to be close to your other sisters and borthers .From what you have written,they both are older to you and have moved out of the house.You need to go out and talk to them more.I have 2 sisters myself and I cannot think how I would ever have lived if they were not there for me even though both my parents are there.it is just not the tears,it is also the joys and the ups and downs we all have faced together.If your siblings have kids,then the best way to get close to them is to create a bond with your siblings'kids.They will love to have you around too, and you will be able to express more of yourself with the kids. You should also go out and find more friends,and not cry everytime you have problems.Each of us do become busy with our lives at one point or the other,so will you.But until then,you have to make your efforts to keep yourself busy.You wrote that you have a blog and write there,that is very good.You can also start doing something good in memory of your mother, something like doing volunteer work which will remind you of your mother.Think of all the love you have recieved from he, now give that love to other people.Love only grows when you share.I am sure you will find many good friends in llife.

First I would like to say how sorry I am that you lost your mom. I feel for you, I really do, my dad just passed away on March 7, 2007 and I miss him dearly. I cry alot too, because I miss him so much it hurts. I thought of something that may help you just a little bit, what if you got yourself a journal and you wrote to your mom everyday. Do you think that would help you? Also, call your sisters and brothers, maybe if you call them and just tell them you would like to talk about things, they would understand that you need them, and I am sure they will be there for you. Sometimes people don't know you need them, or don't know how to reach out to you, so you have to be the one to reach out to them for help. It is ok to do so. I wish you all the luck in the world!

I am sorry for the loss of you mother. I understand that your sisters have families of their own, but if they knew that you were in need of them, I bet they would be there for you. Try to reach out to your sisters for support. Invite them out for coffee or lunch and tell them how you are feeling. There is a special bond between sisters regardless of their other responsiblities.

This means you feel alone and though you cry !!!!! but life is beautiful. y don't you enjoy your life while jelping others and keeping you mind busy with some work . You can join some of job else some courses when you can engage your mind and feel life is beautiful gift which should alwys be cared . take life in positive attitude .........