I Haven't Heard even a Single word SORRY....Is it easy to forgive?
By ydnac22
@ydnac22 (802)
Philippines
March 16, 2007 9:14am CST
Well, here i am again sharing my past...(lol)
As few of you here knows ive been in a four year relationship before...a serious one.And yes it hurts me badly bad but i will be happy to announce that i have totally moved on now after 1 year of grief.(lol)...
I havent heard latest news about my x.The last things i heard is he married that girl he made pregnant.Yes admit our relationship ends very badly.We dont even talk formally during our breakup.I just break him up after knowing that he got a new girl in his life.I remember the time i confronted him about this he just said "well im just a man who easily fall inlove to someone else" ahhhh sounds very sarcastic.Thats the last words i heard from him.NO apologies, NO sorries ....Now, i met his friend two weeks ago.Hes nice and we exchanged stories and many things.
I was just surprised when he asked ,"have you forgiven him"(refering to his friend) and i answered right away..."how can i forgive a person who dont even utter a single word sorry?" he just smiled and say "You havent move on yet."
Do you think he's right?Im confused of what i feel, yes i thought i have already moved on cause im happy now with my bf but the thing is i havent forgiven him yet. Is it easy to forgive?
2 responses
@loisse21 (214)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
i think its never easy to forgive especially in your case that he has given you too much heartache.yes it might be that you have already moved on but that does not really mean that it would be easier for you to just forgive him.its hard since you know deep within that he doesnt deserve it--he's not even asking for it so why give it. well its a good thing that you have moved on. dont think too much on forgiving him because it would just happen when the right time comes...
ENJOY LIFE
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@nicolec (2671)
• United States
16 Mar 07
It is never easy to forgive. Many people will tell you that you must forgive someone in order to move on and be at peace with your self. I disagree. You don't ever have to forgive some one who has wronged you in a such a way and how has no regret for their actions. Especially when he shows no regret.
What you do need to do (and it sounds like you have) is accept what has happened. Accept what life dealt you and move on. I think you are on the right track. Good luck
