How much do you pay your babysitter?

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@mom_of_2 (398)
Canada
March 16, 2007 2:02pm CST
I don't leave my children with anyone other than family but I have something to attend and A friends daughter will be looking after my kids. I have no clue what babysitters charge. I asked the girl but all she said was "oh don't worry about it". I know she doesn't want to request any amount because her parents are friends of ours. We will be out for 6 hrs and she will be responsible for putting the kids to bed. I don't want to underpay her and seem like I'm taking advantage of our friendship...I just have no clue what is fair. Any suggestions would be great.
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@brckoba (795)
• United States
16 Mar 07
if it's during the day I usually pay 11 dollars an hour and if it's during the night the rate is 12.50 dollars and hour. Some people say it's a little too much, but trust me. My daughter's babysitter keeps her safe and happy!!! If you think it's too much you can probably work something out with the babysitter... Good Luck! :)
@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
16 Mar 07
Its impossible to put a price on our childrens safety. I do want to pay her a little more than "expected" beacause I know she is wonderful with the kids. I didn't realize the rate went up for evening hours though...thanks for the advice.
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@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
16 Mar 07
$7 - $10 was kind of what I had in mind too but my hubby thought that was even to high? I'd rather be a "good payer" and know that when im in dire need of a babysitter she will help me out. Its been about 18 years since I babysat any kids so once again here I am on mylot looking for advice..lol.
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• Canada
16 Mar 07
12.50 AN HOUR??? Are you serious? I think Granny has just taken off the apron and threw out the slippers. I was going to go out for a couple hours tonight but brckoba do you need a babysitter this evening? I'd be glad to break plans... OK I'm being an a-s but I didn't know I was that old! I used to get 25 cents an hour and 50 cents after midnight but man.I have a certificate for being a good foster parent, but that would make me over qualified. LOL I can't see how you could pay a full time babysitter. You'd be at work to give your sitter a job. 12.50 heh? For how many kids JUST ONE? This has left me breathless. Thank You mom_of_2 for this post.This might cost you double if you have two kids. Thanks brkoba for this space under your post.
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17 Mar 07
Gosh I am stunned,I don't think I would ever be able to afford to go out if I had to pay that sort of money on top of my night out.I don't think the sitters here in the UK get anywhere near that.Mind you I am a bit out of touch with these things as my eldest is now 40.It says a lot for living near your family so you can call on them at a much cheaper rate(a box of chocs usually does the trick). I am also a bit puzzled as I read in so many places about how low the wages are in US so why would an unqualified teenager sitting for a bit extra pocket money be worth so much.Don't get me wrong the safety of the child is all important but it seems an awful lot of money.
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@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
I don't know about the US but here in Saskatchewan (Canada) the cost of living is quite high..but then so are the wages. Just for example, in my city, Tim Hortons starting wage is 13 dollars and hour. Now thats just a coffee shop so you can imaging what banks, offices, or other buisness pay. I wouldn't let anyone under 14 babysit and by the time kids are 14 they want to work for a buisness and make good money so its next to impossible to even find a babysitter. Lucky for me I usually don't go anywhere my kids can't go...this is just a special night out with my husband so I guess I'm going to have to pay the price !! Thanks for the response Jackiesand :)
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
17 Mar 07
Since I am a stay home mom I dont have to worry about it. The thing is you should base it on how long, how many kids and how old the sitter is. If it is a teen ager I would say $75-$100 depending on how long is more than enough.
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@Joslyn77 (374)
• United States
17 Mar 07
We have used babysitters and we were paying them anywhere between 5 to 6 and hour. These kids also used to be our neighbors and were really good. Sometimes if I had a little more to give I would,but we did agree on five when we first started. I had the same kids babysit for almost seven years on and off.
@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
$5 - $6 seems to be the average...It works out great when you have a neighbor or friends that can babysit, you don't mind paying alittle more when you can go out and be relaxed KNOWING your children are being well cared for.
@jen0526 (82)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I would think it depends on the age of the children, and how many you have, if she has to change diapers, I would pay her more. Is she going to have to cook for them? Bath them? If she has to do any of those things, I would give her 10 an hour, if not, 8 an hour would be good, its 48 dollars, and thats enough for her to go out and do something fun, like a movie or buy a few cd's or whatever.
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@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
My babysitter has it pretty easy. My kids are 3 and almost 6. No diapers...I prefer to cook for my kids and bath them. The only thing I really expect is her to entertain them, make sure they're safe and in the case she will have to put them to bed.
• United States
17 Mar 07
Before I moved from VA to WV, I was a state licensed day care provider. When we moved to the house are in, we knew there were repairs that needed to be made and sprucing up to do and I didn't want to start up a day care again until we had those repairs and such done. However I was a daycare provider in a fairly large city about 90 miles east of Washington DC. On an hourly basis, I would charge $2.00 per hour per child for someone who merely used my services for the occassional night out only. If one of my regular families came to me and said that they would like for me to watch their kids so they could go out for the evening, I would charge them less--$1.50 per hour per child. I would say depending on your area, that for the time you will be gone, that somewhere in the neighborhood of $20-30 for the evening would be fair. I am sure that this gal would be very appreciative of it especially since she said 'don't worry about it'
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@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
Wow, I'm very suprised by the rates you charged. The last time I babysat, approx. 18 yrs ago, the going rate was $2. Now that was for evenings..I don't know what a full time daycare provider charges. I find it intresting that there is such a huge difference of oppinion on what to pay a babysitter. Thanks for the response :)
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
17 Mar 07
OMG I'm sorry I was reading some of these responses and thinking some are going a bit nuts. We are talking about a babysitter, not someone you are hiring and paying out taxes for. They are a teenager usually or maybe a bit older but it's all under the table work. They are not licensed, they are not specialty workers and yet some are paying more then I see professionals get with a full time job. If I was going to pay more then $3 an hour I better come home to a spotless house, the kids all taken care of and I better not have had to supply any food or drinks for the babysitter. Unless you have a special needs child there is no reason to be giving those high amounts I saw in here. When I used to babysit I got at least $1 an hour and at one point $2 an hour, I did not expect the $2 they offered it. When I did babysit I not only took care of the children but I cleaned the house. I did the dishes and I made sure all the toys were put away, etc. The kids were in bed and when the parents came home everything looked good. When we got a babysitter for my niece we paid about $2 an hour (we usually rounded it up to $20). We also bought them dinner and we had food and drinks for them there. I can see today paying $3 an hour. That seems fair but I still think the babysitter should clean up after themselves. They should put away the messes that happen. I shouldn't have to come home to clean the house before going to bed after I take them home.
@mom_of_2 (398)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
Isn't funny how things have changed. When I babysat $2 was the rate and I too did more than babysat. Like you said..house was as clean if not cleaner when the parents came home...I too have made meals, bathed kids, even vaccumed in one situation and I was happy with $2. I know the rate has increased but I don't think chores are part of the deal anynore.
@jsgrand0 (246)
• United States
16 Mar 07
I never really figure by the hour, just by the overall time. for 6 hours, and you didn't say how many kids, but if you go by 2 and they will be asleep part of the time and she is just a teenager, I would say $35-$45. When i babysat for a kid down the street when I was 16, his parents were great...they'd be gone for about 4-5 hours and I'd get $30-$40 and I'd be thrilled! I know that was 10 years ago and money's worth has REALLY changed. It's so unaffordable really. Yeah, we usually have family babysit for free too! If you paid $10/hr for someone to babysit for say the 4 hours it would take for movies and a decent dinner, it would tack on $40 to your evening, it's not affordable! It also depends on the area you live in, I think. I live where the cost of living is relatively low...if you're in LA or NY I guess it would probably be more. But in your situation, I would say about $40 would do the trick.
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• United States
16 Mar 07
I have a friend who pays her babysitter $7/hr for one three year old. You can't put a price on your childs safety and happiness and if someone knows they are getting paid decent they are going to do a better job, it's just human nature. I think that $2/hr would be insulting! I wouldn't pay less than $7.hr for one child, if you have more than one than I would add an extra dollar an hour for each one.
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