I am in love with my friend's girlfriend.Is that bad?
@Darkhorse1311 (418)
India
March 16, 2007 2:33pm CST
For quite some time now i have developed a crush on my really good friend's gf.She is a really sweet girl and so is my friend.But until recently my feelingss have grown for her and this isnt just for fun... i mean i am really into her now.What shud i do now.I wanna do sumthing abt it but i dont wanna risk losing a gr8 friend.Help me out here guys.As of now i have began ignoring both of them in a bid to get over it.What should i do
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@clarkebar (130)
• United States
16 Mar 07
My opinion is that you should continue to avoid them at this time. It isn't fair to break up a relationship. If you two are meant to be, maybe she will miss you and make the decision to break up with him which would allow you two to see what will happen. Otherwise, morally, in my opinion, she is off limits. It stinks, but you wouldn't want someone to break up your relationship. Either way, best of luck !
@Darkhorse1311 (418)
• India
16 Mar 07
yes i realised that and that's why i have been ignoring them...but i genuinely feel i could take better care of her and make her happy.But then again i dont want to break it.Its been tough now.Thx for ur thoughts
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
16 Mar 07
Oh boy, this gets really tricky. It's hard to decide between love and friendship. Can you do without that girl? But wait, does that girl love you in kind? If she loves you, you can perhaps start a relationship with her - though that might possibly mean loosing your friend. But if she doesn't love you, this would be a moot point. You are better off keeping the status quo.
Try sound her out perhaps?
