how do you keep the faith
By ruelou
@ruelou (263)
Philippines
3 responses
@Netsbridge (3253)
• United States
16 Mar 07
One cannot make sure that any person is faithful to him or her. I believe that one simply becomes faithful in a relationship and hopes the partner also remains faithful. Just cannot force another person to become or remain faithful.
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Faith and Trust in your partner goes together. How do I make sure that my partner is faithful? I leave it to my instincts. You will definitely feel is something else is going on.
@callybop (149)
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16 Mar 07
ooh good question! :D
This is a tough one... especially if you've been hurt and betrayed in the past. I think that causes big problems with some people in relationships. Its hard not to judge people the same as people who have hurt you...
I think you have to try to give people a chance, realise its not fair to judge them on someone else's mistakes... or even your own mistakes!!
Trust has to be earned though, so don't be too quick to trust but don't shut people out unfairly.
And first and foremost put your trust in God that He knows whats best for you, and He will direct your paths ;)