Is your partner cheating on you or not?
By sesilflores
@sesilflores (13)
Philippines
March 16, 2007 11:40pm CST
i really don't know the signs if your partner i.e gf/bf or husband is cheating on you. sometimes not knowing the truth can make your life easier,and the ignorance really can be blissful. Nothing can ruin your life so quickly and completely as that nagging "feeling" that seems to spread into every part of your daily existense - Is your Partner cheating on you or not? Other people who have been cheated on said that they had a gut feeling about the infidelity before they knew for certain. what does this mean? it means that chances are, if you have had a good strong feeling or suspicion that your partner is cheating on you at any point in time they could very well be cheating. you have to learn to follow your gut instinct, but it's extremely important you don't go making accusations without evidence or proof to back it up or you risk not knowing the truth forever as they may cover their tracks even better than before.
2 responses
@wildguy2 (1349)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
I have been in several bad relationships where my instincts have always proven right, my last was with my ex-wife, she had been running around on me, and inside I knew it, when you get emotionally attached to someone, it is like a bond between you and somehow you can tell when that bond has been broken by trust or lack of it. I knew for weeks that my ex-wife was cheating on me, I waited to see if she would confide in me and trust me enough to tell me, but she never did, so I had to confront her, when that happened she was so amazed of how detailed I was and how I knew as much as I did, but again the instincts told me.....she went as far as to get pregnant in hopes I wouldn't find out until the child was born, then she would have me think he/she was mine...but again I knew.....
@sesilflores (13)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
really! that's so disgusting! so sad to hear your story. hoping you will find someone whom you'll give all your trust and love. God bless!
@deliciouslyjuicy (364)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
ive been cheated on all of my relationships once only. and this is only as far as ive known and have seen. my ex bf cheated on me, and my friends saw him with other girls and they are suspicios about it but really i did not believe them not until that i saw it with my own eyes. and so i did saw it him kissing another girl calling her baby when i was supposed to be his baby.
i know that he's handsome and cahrming and friendly and that he has this possibility of cheating on me. and os i did caught him it hurts. but in the relationship i didnt think that sooner or latr hes gonna cheat on me because it owuld really affect the way i treat him and i would be suspicious all the time.
but now im in a currnet relationship trust and love is all i give to that person whom i dearly love. and it didnt come to my mind that he would cheat since i am loyal to him as well. and im trying my best to be a good gf and see to it that he knows that i loved him so dearly.
and if he does cheat i would know it. i have this way of knowing it and after which i would analayzed why did he cheated on me and try to examine myself whats wrong with me and fix myself since he would not cheat on me if he really felt secured with my life and hes treated very well by me.
