Is appearence or mind important for a selecting partner
By rangannk
@rangannk (1)
India
March 17, 2007 4:34am CST
Many of you would have thougt about your partner.Somebody would think that they want a nice looking cool handsome man/beautiful woman to be theirs partner.some think that a good man/woman with neat habits should be their partner.there are diiferent things which affects this like society,culture,family,friends etc.
societies force us to make a large amount of decision on contradictory to what we think.Your decision on choosing a partner should be as that he/she has to be a fitting man for your society.If he/she is good behaved the society would give him/her more respect and if heshe is handsome/beautiful the society would look him/her as a fine looking.
On the regard of family if he/she is earning more and have the promise of keeping you in love makes a decision in favour against him/her.
On the part of your culture you select the person on your own will.If your culture backs on good behaviour and good habits or if your culture believes on handsomeness/beautifullness and youthfulness your decision would vary accordingly.
I also want your opinoins on this topic.
3 responses
@dillinger83 (165)
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17 Mar 07
Most of all I would want to be with a man who loves me for who I am and treats me well. He must challenge me and make me laugh. He must be intelligent and a genuinely good, kind person.
I'm not too concerned about money as I can take care of myself. However, I wouldn't want to get involved with someone who didn't want to contribute his fair share of the household income or who had problems with money, such as a gambling addiction.
Of course it would be nice if he had good manners and was neat and tidy, but these things aren't so important and can be changed over time if he really wants to.
Looks aren't extremely important and I don't care what anyone else thinks. I'm the one who has to live with and look at the man for the rest of my life, so why should I be concerned about what others think? However, there does need to be a physical attraction there in order to have a successful romantic relationship. This doesn't mean that he has to be conventionally attractive, just that I must feel an attraction towards him, whether it is for his looks or his personality or both.
@classy56 (2880)
• United States
17 Mar 07
very well said dillinger83" i couldnt had said it any better.it whats you fell in your heart an soul.you hit the nail on the head!
