who do you turn to?your father or mother?

I'm a daddy's girl so I usually go to my dad especially when asking money. But when it comes to chatting, I turned to my mom, we talked a lot. Now that I am a mom, I go to her when I ask advices on parenting. If I need a hand or help to watch over my kids, I turned to my mom.

Hi, neertow20! I turn to my mother just like you do. We have this bond when it comes to emotions. We cling to each other when we feel like crying or talking a problem out. Even details of ordinary topics, we share. As for my dad, he cares to the extent of saying yes to almost all what I want. That means, I don't get most of his opinion because he allows me to whatever I want to do with my life.

I'm from sardar family from central India (Sardar means loyal family ) and in our family we were not allowed to even stand in front of dad without any work . We are two brothers and one sister. We all are close to mom as we used to share all of our problems with her only. Dad , I'm scared of him till the date . I'm 29 now and not allowed to speak to dad without his permission.