How would you response if you knew that your little brother is gay?

Malaysia
March 17, 2007 12:50pm CST
How to handle this situation? I once had a friend who was gay and totally not against it. What about you? Can u accept it, if out of the blue, your lil' bro came out of the closet?
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7 responses
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
18 Mar 07
I have friends that are gay and they are just like anyone else - whom they fall i love with is not my problem. If my brother was gay i would support him. i love him adn him beiing gay could not change that!
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• Malaysia
18 Mar 07
this is how we should value our life.. doesnt matter whom he falls in love with... he would still be our own flesh and blood. But in Asia, it is still not well accepted and they would look at them as abnormal.
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@shadow9 (238)
• Romania
17 Mar 07
nop ... probably wouldn't accept it ... but then again there's not much to do ... only thing is to get him a girl that likes him and have lot in common to talk and make him fall inlove and if they break up hope that he has forgoten and has changed his "likeings" ...
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• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
well... it happened in my area where once a gay guy (still in the closet) was asked to marry a girl tru' arranged marriage, whereby he agreed to it just to try and burb out this 'wierd' feeling. Later it turns out that the marriage shambles to the ground as the guy was never in love with the wife.I pity the wife.. she was the victim in this matter
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
17 Mar 07
If I had a little brother I wouldent care what hissexual orientation was he would still be my brother. He would still be the same person. What happens behind closed doors is no ones business but his. The best thing you could do is give him a hug and tell him that no matter what he is your brother and you will always love him.
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@Joslyn77 (374)
• United States
17 Mar 07
Well,I did have this happen,but its my big sister and not a younger sib. It's fine with me. I've known for over ten years and I accepted it right away and we are very close. We are actually closer now then when we were growing up. Probably because she was trying to figure herself out and I am totally oppisite than her. I don't just mean I'm straight and she's not.
• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
i totally cannot accept it because in my family theres no such thing a gay rules or something like that.. but if i have a gay friend.. it would be okay for me coz ppl have their own right.. their own thinking ..
• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
areyouse, i valued your opinion. As u said.. we have the right to our own believes. Just remember... gay is no different from us.. they are still human.. it's only the surrounding people who look at them differently
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@Azrayel (95)
17 Mar 07
None of my brothers are gay, but one of my best friends came out of the closet not too long ago and i really didn't mind at all, its his choice and i accepted that.
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• Malaysia
17 Mar 07
that is wise what u did azrayel. U shouldnt just leave him when u knew he is gay... the support u gave to your buddies meant the world to him
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• Australia
18 Mar 07
I would accept him for who he was. I don't have to like what he does but love him yes.
• Malaysia
18 Mar 07
thank you wildcoyote.
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