Where did "a man's right to party" dissapear?

Ha! ha ha ha! Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Proven? By a scientist? Show me the proof. And by the way, maybe I'm just a silly American by no where in the constitution is there a "man's right to party". I'm going to assume it's not in the bible either. So where is this supposed "right"?

no i don't think women are like that to men well not the women who i know anyways! in my relationship it's the other way around, i can't go out with friends, i can't speak to my family and so on! i think this is awful this relationship that ive had to suffer and it won't be carrying on for much longer, he can go and find another woman to rule bit with me it's not going to happen anymore! =)

Actually, I saw the same post that upset you; it was written by a young Australian woman who feels that her husband is unfairly placing 90 percent of the burden of caring for their baby on her while he does whatever he wants. I think her "why are men useless" question was a bit harsh and too general, since not all of us guys are overly selfish and lazy. It's just that some of us are good fathers/husbands/boyfriends/sons/brothers by nature, while others of us actually have to work harder to be all those things, since much of our behavior is learned from others who may or may not have set good examples.

Seems relationships can be like walking on hot coals for some and the question of what's fair crops up regularly in them. Which makes me wonder why people get paired up in the first place. So I go back to the animal kingdom and just what happens in this scenario. Female bird fluffs her feathers, male takes note and mates with fluffy female, then cute fluffy creature is produced. Cute fluffy creature drives wedge between now fluffless female bird and male bird is sent to dog house because he doesn't cut the mustard anymore, and dejected he wonders what the hell he did wrong. He goes out with the other male birds who have their tails between their legs, no longer thinking that fluffing their own feathers is a good idea, cause they, you know, no longer have a fluffy female to admire him. But is pleased at least he is not a male black widow spider else he be eaten after producing said cute fluffy creature. Fluffy female needed to tell buxom male what the ground rules were supposed to be before she produced cute creature.

Ahh thank you , thank you ! You are so right about this one.I think this is the post where i can add my opinion regarding this "delicate" subject.I say delicate because men are sometimes affraid to say anything about their rights because they'l know that there's going to be a woman yelling at him for that...and he usually don't want to get her upset. Of course both men and women have a lot of "bad" behaviour things that i could add ,but there's no need for that , it's NOT a general thing. If you are smart enough then you just don't start this kind of discussion : if you don't like something don't go and generalize it....and MOVE ON untill you find something or someone who you can match with. Oh and post scriptum : don't start with :yeaaahhh bit ehere is that sudty ? and i mean yeahh but they're all the sameee , ya know?

I don't think the superiority is the subject here,. let's face it, without the private part hanging between your legs, men are just like women, likewise, women are like men. I think you just got to work the harmony between the 2. Men loves to enjoy..yet, women wants too, in fact, most of the women I know needs a day-off without their man too.. I say, maybe for breathing purposes...hihi, nah! just kidding. Well maybe the women becomes so nagger because sometimes(

No, I don't believe women are superior to men. God created man first and then took a rib from him and created woman as a help mate to man. So, see, man and woman should work as a team, like a well oiled machine. I think you still have rights as a man to go out and party, but have some courtesy, let the woman know when you think you'll be home and if you're not going to make that committed time, call and let her know. It's not "reporting" to a woman or having the "right" to come home whenever you want. It is common courtesy that is almost non-existent between a man a woman. I also don't think men are useless. I happen to appreciate my husband of almost 14 years VERY VERY MUCH. But, we communicate well, at least most of the time and this allows us to appreciate each other. I hope whatever woman you are with, you will take the time to communicate with her and that she will take the time to listen.

I love men - and especiallt my man =) I do let him go out with friends and if he is late I yell at him *ha ha ha* BUT he does the same thing to me so we are equals in this relationship =)

wow that a lot...i mean descriptions..well i dont hate men for a start..i love my hsuband i even let him go out with friends at least ...when married its is very understandble that guys should be committed to their woman and respect her..and at least limit the frequent activities you have when still single..esp. those that can distract any relationships..that will lead to separation...we are all created equal and must respect each other..

I think it is equal beween a man and a woman,a women is not superior for a man.A lot of times we need to think about something on another side,maybe we need to exchange our position at first.

well, i think that women should be superior to men in some ways but not to the extent that they lose their sense of being a man and become so inferior that they tend to be bossed around by anybody.if a man has a girlfriend or a wife for example, they should give in to them or to things that please their partner but not to the point that his partner abuses him and always want to win in almost everything. guys do have sense to and sometimes we should listen to them because it is not everyday that we are right. they too have something to contribute and so sometimes we should be fair enough to listen to them.

hey no. 1 we women are not agaisnt you,, no. 2 if we allowed you to go out with your friends and told us to be back on a given time,, then be back on what you had told us, so there's no problem!,,

Wow...you are so right! I am an American woman, and I classify myself as a feminist, even though I am probably closer to an equalist. I agree with the persons right to party. There have actually been times when I have told my husband, "Please, call your friends, go to the bar, get drunk, have fun!" I occasionally, about 3-4 times per year, go with my girlfriends and get drunk and stay the night at one of their houses. There are men who are misogynist pigs, but in general I find that men and women share the same flaws. Take my husband, he helps with the kids, helps clean, talks to me, and overall worships me. Far from useless. My only comment is, hang in there. When you find a woman who loves you she will apreciate you and all of the wonderful things that make you who you are.

men & women are the most wonderfull creation of god, then cannot live without each other neither they can live together. i dont feel every man is supirior to every women neither the vice-versa, what i feel is that like fire and oil if man-n-women controll their emotions then there could be a beautiful fire , but if uncontroled it could result in a disaster. So what do you want depends entirely on you...

I don't think women are superior to men. I think it's an individual thing. I do think, though, that men should realize that when they are in a relationship, there are responsibilities - they need to respect the relationship and their partner, and that does sometimes mean not going out with the guys without prior arrangement. My husband goes out (or over to a buddy's house) once a week. He calls to tell me if he's going to be extraordinarily late, and there are no recriminations when he gets home - he's allowed to have fun. But since we are in a relationship, we let each other know if we are going to be later than expected. And I don't think men have less rights than women. That's just a sensationalistic statement.

I woud like to remind all participants that a relationship is give and take. You can't have two independant people all fo a sudden decide to spend all of their time together. Woman may be notroious for having to know exactly what who and where there mate is at all time but I have mmet enough men that are just as possessive. If you feel stiffled--discuss it, don't just let it bother you into an early break-up.

what scientist prooves that women have more defects then men? Just curious! I don't think anyone should loose the right to go out with their friends. Maybe you just picked a psyco to go out with...Maybe you arent ready for a relationship. I think being in a relationship can be very restraining and you loose some sort of independence I keep away I've decided I would rather be alone and do what ever I want than to hang with some one that keeps a leash on me. The perfect relationship would be to be able to maintain your life independent of each other and come back and have things to talk about. Because if you spend all your time with the same person eventually there is really nothing left to talk about because you were both there. It's crazy and sometime I wish people would think about that when they are in a relation ship.

Hmmm, well some men are useless, but then again, some women are useless too. It's like this "I am not racist , prejudiced, or sexist, because there are A**holes everywhere" Bitter people = stupidity, it is not right to say that men are useless, because what a world we would be in without them, and then again can't say that most women are useless because what world would we have without them? who cares about science, it could be proven one way by this scientist, and the opposite way by a different scientist. Let's leave it by saying that there are men that are A**holes and women that are B**ches and that is that!