Getting Into Brawls Or Fights -- Do You Or Not?

This happened while I was still in grade school. There is this girl, much bigger than me, I don't know why but she always picked on me, kind of more than twice my size. I always avoided her, want no fights in my life which are useless. It could be that she was picking on me becuase, she was intimidated by how I was, I was always quiet and timid and so small and skinny, just keeping my corner. One afternoon, after school, she blocked my path along with her friends. Finding no other way out, I fought her with everything I've got. Just plain girls fight. I won of course, and from then on, she had no other way but to learn to respect me. Never had to fight after that.

I very rare every find myself in those situations and when I do I am usually the one that is the peace maker. The one that steps in and interupts the fight to break it up. No I am not a whimp but, I just hate to fight. What is the point in fighting you never solve any thing. In fact it just causes more problems and more resentment towards others. Most of the fights that I do encounter, it is just a normal spat with my husband and that is not physical it is just emotional and can be over came with time. lol I just don't go places to where fighting will occur such as bars.

nope if I was really mad at somebody they probly wouldn't even know it

It all depends on the situation really and who it is giving me aggro. But, i don't like running away. I hate bully's with a passion though, gutless cowards in my opinion.