Do you want to have kids why or why not?

United States
March 17, 2007 10:48pm CST
I do not want to have kids not now or ever, they are just not for me they are not something I want in my life. However, I have nothing against peopel who have and want kids. Do you want kids if so why if not why don't you?
2 responses
• United States
19 Mar 07
I don't want kids either. I just hate the little buggers. They irritate me to no end. On top od which, pregnancy is just blech. I'd probably kill myself before I'd go through that mess. And I don't have a problem with people who want kids or have kids since I fundamentally don't believe in controling other people's lives like that, but I hate seeing little kids and pregnant women. It just annoys me. But what I hate more than anything are these self-righteous women who think that having kids are the absolute greatest thing in the entire world and that anyone who doesn't have kids are unfortunate and anyone who doesn't want kids is either stupid, immature, selfish or just a bad person. "How could anyone not want a baby"? type people.
• United States
19 Mar 07
Ah I agree completely these are the things that do bother me people actually cannot believe it they say "OMG why?!" "thats terrible" etc. I don't want or need a child whatsoever.
• United States
20 Mar 07
Omg I know ever since I was a little kid I would say I didnt want kids of my own and I still dont never will.
• United States
20 Mar 07
I know. And then there's the famous "Don't worry, you'll change your mind when you get older." Give me a break.
@steney (1418)
• Philippines
18 Mar 07
I have a kid that I had at a time when I wasn't planning to have one. It's unbelievable how this little person changed my life. I never regret having her as I enjoy a fulfilled and happy life because of her. The joys of motherhood is great. It might not be for everyone, but it's also too good to miss.
• United States
18 Mar 07
It is not for everyone that is true, but like you said for others it can be a lovely experience thank you for sharing that.