Is it bad to recall your past relationship once in a while?
By lissienpaul
@lissienpaul (478)
Philippines
March 18, 2007 3:13am CST
Would it be a sin if you giggle over your past? Would it be a sin to your spouse or God as well?
4 responses
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
18 Mar 07
As long as we can remember what and who we should care for now, recollecting our past relationship with happy or sad emotion is healthy and we should not feeling guilty. I mean anyone has a history of being intimate with someone else. Even if we don't recall them on purpose, they still exit in our subconscious minds. They are already parts of our life. So I suppose God or your spouse should understand that and would not consider that as a sin.
@palpalsky (899)
• United States
19 Mar 07
well bad relationship do have moments and attimes its nice to remember them as it helps to learn something out of it ..well i dont think its harmful to remember something once a while ..afterall u cant forget things or wash out completely from your life .
@mdarma (868)
• Singapore
19 Mar 07
Is it a sin or not!
If it is for a giggle and for a light moment, I think it is OK, as long as it does not go beyond that.
@deliciouslyjuicy (364)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
there's no such thing as a sin, it isnt provided in the bible or in the ten commandments.
as for me, it cant be helped when you reminisced your past memories your past relatiosnhips especially beautiful memories then you tend to smile or giggle about it. it is just its stock in on your mind and os once in a while you got to open the drawer in your brain for those wonderful memories.
it should be kept to yourself and not let it be shared with your spouse, since for sure it would start an argument and who would wnat that right? for sure men don't want that pasts would be digged up and be talked about as men would say PAST IS PAST.
but really though its not a sin as long as you are not hurting anybody by doing so.