what would you do?hate them or love them

I think even if ur boyfriend's family donot like u, then also u should try to win their hearts. If u finally find that u can never win them, then drop the idea but keep respecting them. Afterall they are ur elders.

I probably won't like them. But I can still be respectful them. Everyone is entitled to feel what they feel towards others. And I won't take it against them if they feel that I'm not worthy for their child. =)

you know the saying,, marrying into the family? thats exactly what you do. the "inlaws or family" is what you are linked to forever, whether you like them or not. so, its just a matter of how much you are willing to put up with, and how much you love your boyfriend/girlfriend. i am not a big fan of my inlaws, but if it were not for them, i would not have my wonderful husband. so, for that reason alone, i keep my mouth shut, and live my life with him.

I will first find out why they do not like me before deciding whether to like them, hate them or treat them neutrally. I guess there is nothing much I can do if they really dislike me. But, one thing I am sure is that I would not be living together with them. That guy might be sandwiches in between, but it is for him to tackle the problem, not me. LOL.

I have seen this same problem, almostly in all of my friend (boyz and gals) family. In my opinion you should be like, what they want be nice to them, Please don't hate them, because in that way you will lose your boyfriend, Be a Nice girl and whether they hate or love, you keep your nice and loving to them all. It would worked for You.

As long as they respect me and they respect the relationship that myh boyfriend and i have, then i wouldn't care if they like me or not. i know someday they would...i just don't force things to happen.