Can somebody help me in my relationship? Please...?

Hi I'm Toya Well do you think she likes you back? Do you get the sign? Come on man you're the one in control it's usually the other way round. I know cause I bin there and it's just so embarrassing!!! What would I recommend? Try and play it cool. If she's got a guy then she probably won't be thinking like you. Do you go out on the same scene? Maybe you could try and make her jealous if you've got a girl you hang out with whose a friend and can help you out then you could take her out to the same places and let her see you with her and see her reaction. Act like you're together. Write back let me know what you think

i'd tell you this : You don't regret doing things that are wrong..regrets come when there are things that are actually right but you didn't do..there's nothing wrong with standing up for your feelings..just remember that you shouldn't tell her you love her just so she would love you back.. You love her because you just do..and it doesn't matter if she's in love with somebody else or not. goodluck.;p

You have 2 choices. Tell her how you feel or don't tell her how you feel. If you choose not to tell her, you need to move on. All you're doing is torturing yourself and wasting your own time by swooning over her! If you choose to tell her, you may find out she feels the same way or you may find out she doesn't. Whatever you decide to do, it is still a decision for you to get on with your life.

Since she already told you she have a "love" there is nothign you can do but respect that current love. You wouldn't like it if you were in the boyfriend's shoes and you see a man pursuing your girlfriend. Let her be for the moment just let her know you will always be here for her when she needs you. Apart from that show her that you are a gentleman by respecting her current relationship.

Well, i think you should gain courage and tell her how you feel. Just be yourself!! I understand how hard it is coz that's the problem of my brother also before but there are a lot of ways to show to her that you do love her not just by speaking to her but by showing through your actions and that's the sweetest thing. Actions speaks louder than words. You can have surprises for her or anything. If you tell her what you feel and said no, at least it's not your loss. As they say, it's better to say that you love her and lost it or have never say it at all. You can do it!! Just believe in yourself!! Good luck!!

Look as i think ya have a good steps... now ur problem how ya reach to her ur feelings... as i think the talks who camce from ur heart will be more active and more reachable to her heart ya just have a nice day with her and say to her i wanna to tell ya somthing make me dying she will say tell me... Say and don't look to her eye's Say to her wat ya say now talk with out scaring without anything just feeling of needing her and then look to her eye's and let her and go to ur home and ya will found good results as i wish

I don't think you could say that you love her until you finally get to know her. At least try to be her friend and see if things would work between you and her.. You have to be natural and let her see who you really are because if you get all nervous you'll screw things up. Just relax and be your beautiful self! =)

If you wants to forget about her, there's this method. Imagine that you and her are together, and then she tells you she fell in love with another guy as he is very rich and wealthy and always drives her in a sport car to where she wants to go, and she beg you and wants to break up with you. Then you will think now that oh I am so lucky that I didnt go steady with her. Rite?

oh someone is in love!!! hey there is no way out for you than to just tell her how you feel about her!! becoz you cant go about meeting her without telling her all this!! dont be bothered whether she is going to say yes or not!! all that matters is that you let her know your feelings!! anyways good luck on your endeavours!

First of all you find out whether she is really had love with other, then you just try to forget her and pray god for her happiness throughout her life, if you are really loving.But you should not disturb her and force her to love you. YOu treat her as your best friend and wish her for her love successful and happy married life.

Hi It's Toya again It's quite difficult really Hard to say what to do. If she's got someone already then I think you should make a plan. You'll be sitting in thinkin about her and her life will just carry on with her man. Can you find out where she goes and what she does. Then you could try and impress her. See what she likes for example what's she into, does she read a lot, go to movies, bars, clubs, do sports. Get some of your friends, guys to come with you and appear at some places shes at. So if shes going to the movies you could appear there and act like it was just chance you met. Just say hello and how are you and then just leave it. Or if she goes clubbing a lot to 1 club start going there with your friends. Then 1 time you could be there with your friends, maybe some girls, just say hi across the room and then 1 time when youre there appear at the bar when youre buying drinks and say hello. Be more relaxed get her interested in you If you already met her and shes with someone chances are she liked you and maybe shes lying cause about how serious her relationship is, maybe you were too pushy she didnt want to say yes. The worse thing is to do nothing What do you think write back maybe I can help with a plan..

well.. you can start by standing up straight, look her in the eyes, and tell her how you feel. since she already told you she didn't have a love, i bet she won't deny you a chance. just be yourself man! c",)

action speak louder than words buddy , ur emotions and facial expressions will speak up itself and help you win ur love.

Hi Poor you. Let me tell you my ex boyfriend has now moved on to a new partner, they live not far from me. It breaks my heart every time i see them, i would rather move to the end of the world that see them together. He plays mind games with me, he tells me sometimes he still loves me and that wastes my head. Why dont you tell this lady how you feel after all "could you feel any worse". I hope there is someone out there for me and you but we will never know until we try and let go and go for it. So you do it. Me there is no hope for me as my so called ex, whom i still love deeply makes a complete fool of me, can you tell me how to deal with him. Debbie from Bonnie Scotland. I hope you are ok, be strong, listen to me wish i could take my own advice. Good luck darlin.

if you really love her.. prove to her that you love her and you care for her through actions..maybe send flowers or gifts..

if you cant express your love towards and if you are not talktive enough to let her know about you. get a card and a beautiful gift for her which she would always adore and write 2 her about what felings you have for her. let her know that you are not talkative so that is somethings which is obstructing you. if she loves u then she will definetly accept you..and understand you

If you want real advice, just listen. Based on your instincts, does she show any sign of infatuation towards you? If not I suggest you move on. For one, most women (especially women in a relationship) don't like guys with inferiority complexes or men that are unexpressive about their feelings. I advise you not to stay in her shadow too much like a little barnacle, stay in the lime light but act non chalant about your feelings. If she already has the idea of you liking her and she shows no sign of flirtation, then she probably doesn't like you (period). So you can pursue her, but guard your feelings a little. Don't be overly optimistic about things, as this could nail you 10 fold. If you already tried the "upfront i-like-you" technique and she still doesn't bite your line, then go totally 360. What I mean by 360 is show her that you still exist, but you exist as someone that is doing okay without her, show absolutely no feelings, no act of pursuing her. This shows a little challenge, and trust me, women love challenges. Women find this enigmatic. Try it.

hi dude , you have been struck by Cupid .....firstly, what you can right now do is to stay cool first.Just chillax and enjoy your love feelings,listen to love songs.but think of being just a good friend to her.When you see her just take a deep breath and think of what good you can do for her, be confidant that you are the perfect match for her.Then try to know what did she din't get from her previous relation, coz you got to hit the right cord to if you want to impress her.Being a girl myself all i can say is that girls really never judge the guy in the very first step so dont be afraid rather "confidant".Be a source of strength and freedom for her.if you dont know her at all then just keep your imaginations limited to friendship. If you succceed to be her best friend then she wont need anyone else.

ok try to attract her..do whatever she likes..first tell her let us be friends..always help her support her.dont let her down ..if this does not work see wether her lover is a good person ..i think u will be happy if she will be happy!!

now, this is the same thing i'm had 10 years ago and i'm 34 now. got a glimpse of a girl and saw her again later on and she went into my mind and heart. finally got the courage to ask her out and on the first date, WHAMP !! she told me not to waste my time as she belongs to someone. Hee.. damn, the first date became gloomy. After everytime i see her, i get nervous, don't know what to do. Each time i try to converse, her words "I have a boyfriend" comes out in my mind. Here is my advice. She did her job by informing you straightforward that she has a boyfriend. In other words, don't waste your time as you are not better than him. So take her advice, don't waste your time. It is not easy but this feeling will be gone when you get someone "special". So grab your closest friends and tell them your problem and they'll know what to do with you. After a month or so (yup. that long) you'll be cured of this sickness. Your best friends are needed now, not your mother. The old chinese saying "new won't come unless the old goes" Cheers man.