What would you do if you thought that your friend could possibly have a crush on
By Only1Andrea
@Only1Andrea (796)
United States
March 18, 2007 2:05pm CST
your husband? I mean I am not sure, nor do I think that she would act on her crush even if she had one, but I mean what would you do? How should I feel about this? Should I react? 'Cause of course everything will be denied and I will look like I am paranoid.
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@maribea (2366)
• Italy
18 Mar 07
oh my god I hope this is not true and that you are misunderstanding your intuition...I hope this because it is so bad finding in such a situation...I don't know what to say...you are divided between the affection for your frien and the love for your husband..I hope I have never to choose between these two but of course if I end up with thinking this I think I will try to speak with my friend...maybe this is a dangerous thing because you can even ruin your friendship but if she is a good friend she will understand how much you are suffering and how it is difficult for you..take care and hope everything is going well
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@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
18 Mar 07
Thanks maribea: I really don't know if my intuition is correct or not. I mean I think if I mention it to her she will probably be a bit offended and regardless to if it is true or not I don't think she will admit to it. I am kind of mixed up on whether or not I should say anything to her.
@ralf_jay (213)
• Sweden
18 Mar 07
well if you think your friend had got a crush on your husband then make sure that your husabad run away with you friend .thats what you need to look for. if your husband is trustworhty then let any one can crush on your husband and that moment you should feel great that ive got a lucky one .
@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
18 Mar 07
Thanks Ralf_Jay: Maybe I am being a bit jealous. I have an extremely trustworthy husband. I mean I trust him with my life. I know I shouldn't even let this bother me.
thanks!
@gramskaren (661)
• United States
18 Mar 07
That is really a tough one. Like you said you can't say anything cause it would be denied. You have to just believe that your husband loves you and have total trust in him. I don't think you can react cause would cause a lot of turmoil. You just have to believe that your friend will not hit on your husband because she is a friend. Life is so hard sometimes. Trust is a big thing in a marriage and if don't have then you have nothing. I have been married 27 years now this june. Marriage is a wonderful thing and don't know what I would do without him. I hope all goes well for you.
