what will you do,if it were you..
By megaplaza
@megaplaza (1441)
Nigeria
March 18, 2007 2:40pm CST
what will be your reaction and action, if you discovered few weeks to your marriage that your husband or wife to be is HIV positive, will you continue with the marriage, end the marriage, go for a test or what. if it were me, i go for a test, i am positive , i will continue with the marriage, if i am not i will quit
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2 responses
@silkyt34 (324)
• United States
18 Mar 07
i would go for a test and regardless of the outcome of the test positve or negative i would stay... i dont understand why you wouldnt.. if you loved them enough to marry them in sickness and in health you are willing to bail on the sickness so soon into a marriage?? not me i would be there for the long haul and if it was negative just use precautions.. i would be very upset at my spouse for not coming clean about it but that doesnt mean that i would abandon them... i gave you a plus for this cant wait to read what others would do
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
19 Mar 07
if you are negative, i dont see the reason why you should go in to that marriage, if he or she loves you he or she should also want you to live. think about it.
@silkyt34 (324)
• United States
19 Mar 07
the reason you should is because you are supposedly in love with this other person negative or positive you can still live.. your quality of life would be dramatically different but i would choose to stay with the person i married because i dont believe there is a clause in the wedding vows that says ohh and by the way if your diagnosed with a termanil illness a few months into the marriage your partner can leave without any remorse
@browneyedgirl (1264)
• United States
18 Mar 07
I think that depends. Did he or she tell you before that there was a possibility of being HIV positive? If he or she lied about this, I would end the marriage. If that was out in the open or it happened in some unforseen way, I would continue with the marriage.
