Down low lovers

I am not mad if a man wants to be with other men, but he NEEDS to be honest and to me, it's very essential in this world we live in because there are people on the down low who are married, who have other women, but they get their kicks off being with other men; the sad thing about this whole situation is that out of these casual encounters, folks get diseases they probably hadn't counted on; Then, on the other hand, the minute you mention "down low" to the women, the facial expression changes, they either want to hit the road or stick their head in the sand or wear rose colored glasses. I cannot buy that because women particularly African American women are DYING because of this. they may not have been active, but their men gets it and gives it to them. On that aspect, I find it totally disgusting;

oh! i cant even imagine it...really disgusting...

Well, 2 me, it would be better 4 the self esteem if he just absolutely had 2 cheat. I mean that, @ least with another man U don't have 2 end up wondering what is it that U didn't have 2 make him go cheat. There is no possible way that U have done, or not done anything, if in fact he likes men. I would find it equaly disgusting if he messed with some nasty hoar. I would remain friends with him.