Friend or enemy?

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As a child I thought of my aunt as my second mother. She would guide me in ways my mom took no interest in knowing. Several years ago, my aunt told me things as a child I swore I would never speak because it would cause some real problems. My aunt would tell me things like: my mom does not like me, the man I call my dad is not really my dad, I would become a welfare mom, talk about my housekeeping habits. One day I was being evicted by a man whom my mother was dating, and my mom called and told my aunt that he got to do what he has to do because he has taxes to pay, and I shouldn't be treated an differently because she's my mom. So my aunt and I decided to call my mom on three-way to confirm the situation, and without my moms knowledge that I was on the phone, I just went off and told her everything my aunt told me for the past 14 years. Although it ended thier relationship, my aunt really doesn't talk to me anymore and my mom and her have not talked in 4 years. Was my aunt trying to help me or destroy me? What do you think her motive was?